Robert was born in London on 22 June 1656, the only surviving son of John Nelson, a merchant in the Turkey trade, by Delicia, daughter of
Sir Lewis and sister of Sir
Gabriel Roberts, who, like John Nelson, were members of the
Levant Company. John Nelson died on 4 September 1657, leaving a good fortune to his son. His mother sent Robert for a time to
St Paul's School, but then took him home. She settled at Driffield
Gloucestershire, the home of her sister Anne, wife of George Hanger, also a member of the Levant Company. Here
George Bull, then rector of
Siddington in the neighbourhood, acted as his tutor. He entered
Trinity College, Cambridge, as fellow commoner in 1678, but never resided. As early as 1680 he began an affectionate correspondence with
John Tillotson, who was a friend of Sir Gabriel Roberts. He was chosen a fellow of the
Royal Society on 1 April 1680. He then went to Paris, accompanied by his schoolfellow,
Edmund Halley, and afterwards made the
grand tour, returning in August 1682. During his travels he met at Rome Lady Theophila Lucy, widow of
Sir Kingsmill Lucy, 2nd Baronet, of
Broxbourne, Hertfordshire, and second daughter of
George Berkeley, 1st Earl of Berkeley. She had
a son twelve years old by her first husband, and was two years Nelson's senior. He married her on 23 November 1682, the marriage having been postponed for a time in consequence of the elopement of her sister with
Lord Grey of Werke. She had, it is said, been converted to
Catholicism at Rome by
Cardinal Philip Howard, and Nelson was not aware of this until after their marriage; but it may have been later. A
Discourse concerning a Judge of Controversy in matters of Religion, published in 1686, upon the Roman Catholic side of the question, is ascribed to her, and in the next year Nelson wrote against
transubstantiation. He took Theophila to
Aix-la-Chapelle on account of her health. He left her there during a visit to England in 1688; but the
Glorious Revolution made him return to the continent. He travelled, with his wife and her son and daughter by her first marriage, to Rome. He lived for a time at Florence, and corresponded with
John Drummond, 1st Earl of Melfort, James II's envoy to the Pope. He was a Jacobite in his sympathies, though not engaged in any active measures. He returned by way of Germany and
the Hague to England in 1691, and settled at
Blackheath.
Tillotson died in his arms on 22 November 1694. He had meanwhile joined the nonjurors. He became very intimate after 1691 with
John Kettlewell, the nonjuring divine, and Kettlewell, dying in 1695, made him his executor. It was by Kettlewell's advice that he began the religious writings by which he is best known, and he supplied
Francis Lee with materials for Kettlewell's life. Through Kettlewell he came to know
George Hickes, and he was soon in close communication with all the nonjuring circle:
Henry Dodwell,
Jeremy Collier,
Charles Leslie,
Francis Brokesby, and others. He remained, however, on good terms with many of the clergy of the established church, and took an active part in various charitable enterprises. He supported the religious societies founded by
Anthony Horneck, and the allied
Societies for the Reformation of Manners, which aimed at enforcing laws for the suppression of vice. He was an active member of the societies started by Dr.
Thomas Bray; the
Society for Promoting Christian Knowledge, founded 1698; the
Society for the Propagation of the Gospel in Foreign Parts, founded 1701; and the 'Associates of Dr. Bray,' a society which especially aimed at providing parochial libraries. He was active in the movement for establishing charity schools, originally begun by Archbishop
Thomas Tenison in the time of
James II, and carried on with great success during the reign of Queen Anne. In 1710 he was one of the commissioners appointed by the Tory House of Commons to build fifty new churches in London. He had left Blackheath in 1703, and lived in Ormond Street. His mother died at the end of 1703, and his wife on 26 January 1706, leaving her fortune to him. Nelson, with Dodwell and Brokesby, left the nonjurors on the death of
William Lloyd, the last of the deprived bishops except
Thomas Ken. Ken expressed to Nelson his desire that the schism should end, and Nelson on Easter Day 1710 received the sacrament from his friend
John Sharp, the
Archbishop of York . He did not join, however, in the prayers for the royal family, and in 1713 he helped to prepare for the press the Jacobite treatise of
George Harbin on
Hereditary Right. He died at
Kensington in the house of his cousin, Delicia, then Mrs. Wolf, daughter of Sir Gabriel Roberts, on 16 January 1715 aged 58. He was the first person buried at a new cemetery in
Lamb's Conduit Fields. A monument was erected on the spot, with a long inscription by
George Smalridge,
Bishop of Bristol. It was restored in 1839, when threatened with demolition by the vestry of St. George the Martyr. ==Works==