The third son of another bishop,
Samuel Wilberforce, and his wife, Emily Sargent (1807–1841)as well as the grandson of
William Wilberforce, leader of the movement to abolish the slave tradeErnest, was born at his father's rectory, and grew up in Lavington and Cuddesdon, there gaining a love of country sports which lasted his whole life. Ernest's younger brother
Basil became
Archdeacon of Westminster. Ernest was educated at
Harrow from 1854 to 1857, then for 2 years with a private tutor, then from May 1859 to 1862 at
Exeter College, Oxford. He showed little academic merit at any of these and – better known as a good oarsman than a good scholar – graduated BA with fourth-class honours. During his time at Oxford he married Frances Mary, third daughter of Sir Charles Anderson, baronet (1804–1891) on 23 June 1863, and subsequently, his attitude to his work and life became more serious, proceeding MA in 1867 and going to train for the ministry at
Cuddesdon College, then under
Edward King. His father ordained him deacon in December 1864 and priest in 1865 and, after short curacies at
Cuddesdon itself and at
Lea, was presented to living at
Middleton Stoney, near
Bicester, in 1868, though he had to resign from it two years later due to Frances' poor health (she died in October 1870 in
San Remo of
tuberculosis). In 1870 he became his father's domestic chaplain at
Winchester, a year later
sub-almoner to
Queen Victoria, and in 1873 priest of
Seaforth. This parish was traditionally evangelical and Ernest's moderate-high churchmanship could have led to friction with his parishioners, but his introduction of daily service and a weekly celebration of holy communion was tactful and such conflict was avoided, and it was in this parish that Ernest first became known for the power of his sermons and his voice. Also in Seaforth, he and his new wife (on 14 October 1874 Ernest had married a second time, to Emily, only daughter of
George Henry Connor, later
dean of Windsorthe couple had 3 sons and 3 daughters) became active supporters of the temperance movement, taking the pledge together in 1876. == Bishop of Newcastle ==