As actor 2004–2009 Friend played three minor roles in a stage production of
The Laramie Project when he was in his third year in drama school, and was spotted by a casting director. He made his acting debut as Billy Downs opposite
Johnny Depp in the 2004 film
The Libertine, for which he was named "outstanding new talent" at the 2005
Satellite Awards. He later stated that working with Depp so early in his career was a great lesson in film-acting. In 2005, Friend had his first starring role as Ludovic Meyer in the film adaption of
Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont, in which he starred opposite
Joan Plowright. In the same year, he portrayed
George Wickham in
Joe Wright's version of
Pride & Prejudice. Aged 22, Friend was offered a
screen test for the part of
James Bond after
Pierce Brosnan stepped down from the role, but Friend felt he lacked the life experience necessary to play the role of Bond. The screen test subsequently leaked online to
YouTube in 2025. In 2009, Friend starred in the film
Chéri, playing the title character opposite
Michelle Pfeiffer. He joined the cast of
The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas as Kurt Kotler, a lieutenant in
Nazi Germany. In 2010, Friend played
Albert, Prince Consort in
The Young Victoria.
Graham King, producer of
Young Victoria, invited Friend to test for the lead role because he remembered his performance in
Pride & Prejudice. His portrayal of Albert received acclaim, especially for his attention to detail and thorough preparation for the role. Friend said that the real challenge had been to find a way to portray the darker sides of an essentially good man like Albert, in order to give depth to the character. He followed this with
Dennis Potter's
Brimstone and Treacle, in which he played the lead character to good reviews. He starred in the film
The Kid, based on the novel by Kevin Lewis. As the film involves boxing, he trained to improve his physical and psychological shape. He also starred in a French film called
Lullaby for Pi, playing a singer called Sam. In 2011, he played Thomas Anders, the protagonist of the film
5 Days of War, which did not receive great reviews . By 2012, Friend felt dissatisfied with his career and rethought his overall approach to his work and selecting his projects. In order to play the role, he had to shave all his hair. He performed most of his own stunts. The production team sent him copies of all the
Hitman games to familiarize himself with the character. However, Friend who calls himself a technophobe, was only able to walk his avatar in circles and soon gave up. In 2015, Friend provided narration for
Nick Knight's folk horror fashion film,
The Face of a Dying Dog. Friend gained worldwide recognition as
CIA operative and assassin
Peter Quinn in the acclaimed political thriller series
Homeland (2012–2017), his first role in a television-series. His performance received widespread acclaim and he was nominated for three awards, including a
Primetime Emmy Award nomination for
Outstanding Guest Actor In A Drama Series in 2013. Friend's departure from the series was mourned by the press and fans. After his involvement in
Homeland ended in 2017, Friend acted in a number of comedies. In a 2014 interview he had already said that he also wanted to explore the 'farcical side' to his acting. He was described as displaying "serious comedic chops" in
Armando Iannucci's
The Death of Stalin, where he played Stalin's son
Vasily. He was asked by director and painter
Julian Schnabel to play
Theo van Gogh in ''
At Eternity's Gate (2018)
, an award-winning biopic about Vincent van Gogh who was played by Willem Dafoe. Friend played the role of the mysterious Ernest Donovan in the series Strange Angel'' from 2018 to 2019; his performance was praised as being 'of amusing weirdness and a creepy-crawly intensity'. In 2018 Friend performed a new audio drama by
John Patrick Shanley,
Last Night in the Garden I Saw You, which featured
Michelle Williams. The following year, Friend was asked by screenwriter
David Koepp to narrate the audiobook of his debut novel
Cold Storage. He voiced the character of Peter Hardy in the 2019
Gimlet scripted podcast
Motherhacker.
2020–present In the early 2020s, Friend joined the group of actors regularly working with director
Wes Anderson. The collaboration started with a cameo appearance as an actor playing a drill-sergeant in
The French Dispatch (2021), and continued with a more substantial role in the 2023 film
Asteroid City. He played leading roles in Anderson's
Netflix short films
The Swan and
The Rat Catcher (2023), based on short stories by
Roald Dahl, whom Friend has described as a hero of his. In 2021, after his success portraying a spy in
Homeland, Friend was once again mentioned as the possible next James Bond when
Daniel Craig gave up the role. The science fiction film
Infinite (2021) in which he played the character Barton alongside
Mark Wahlberg, was listed as one of the worst films of 2021. The following year, Friend played network boss Wilson Sikorsy in
Tim Kirkby's film
Last Looks (2022), which got positive reviews. He starred opposite
Sienna Miller and
Michelle Dockery as James Whitehouse, a British politician on trial for
rape, in the Netflix mini-series
Anatomy of a Scandal. Friend initially turned down the role twice, because he did not feel enough affinity with the privileged Whitehouse. He was only persuaded to take on the part when director
S.J. Clarkson challenged him to find a way to portray the humanity of the character. His acting was generally praised, with the series itself getting mixed reviews from critics. Friend featured as the
Grand Inquisitor in
Disney+'s series
Obi-Wan Kenobi (2022), an experience he said he enjoyed and would like to repeat. The role was physically demanding: the Grand Inquisitor's
armour weighed 45 pounds and every day of shooting it took a team of makeup artists four hours to apply the makeup and
prosthetics required for the role. He portrayed one of the main characters in the comedy series
High Desert, with
Patricia Arquette and
Matt Dillon. In February 2022, it was announced that Friend would play a lead role in
Zack Snyder's science fiction film
Rebel Moon; he withdrew from the project because of scheduling problems. He was part of the
QCode musical podcast series
Cupid, released in the summer of 2022. In May 2024, it was announced that he would appear in the 2025 film
Jurassic World Rebirth.
As director, screenwriter, producer and lyricist In 2008, Friend and
Tom Mison wrote, produced and starred in a short film called
The Continuing and Lamentable Saga of the Suicide Brothers. The film won Best Short at the Rhode Island International Horror Film Festival (2010). He founded his own production company called Beat Pictures, and he made his directorial debut with a short film in 2010 called
Steve, starring
Colin Firth,
Keira Knightley and
Tom Mison. In addition to directing, he wrote and produced the film, which was later included in the 2012 compilation
Stars in Shorts.
Steve won Friend the
Rhode Island Film Festival Crystal Image Award, and was nominated for the
Santa Barbara Film Festival Bruce Corwin Award for Best Short Film. Plans for Friend to write, direct and star in a feature-length
road movie about confidence tricksters called
Barton & Charlie & Checco & Bill were mentioned in the media in 2014–2015, but the project did not materialise. Friend was asked by
Adam Waldmann, the leader of the jazz ensemble
Kairos 4tet, to write the lyrics for a track on their 2011 album
Statement of Intent, and was then asked to contribute lyrics for their 2013 album
Everything We Hold, which received positive reviews. His lyrics were sung by Marc O'Reilly,
Omar Lye-Fook, and Emilia Martensson. == Acting style ==