, 1455. Francis placed Clare in the convent of the
Benedictine nuns of San Paulo, near Bastia. Her father, along with other members of her family, attempted to convince her to return home. At first, they tried to persuade her by enticing her with wealth, and the privileges of nobility through marriage, but she resisted each attempt, professing that she would have no other husband but
Jesus Christ. Finally, when they tried to use force she clung to the altar of the church and threw aside her veil to show her cropped hair. It was only after seeing her cropped hair that her family relented and left her in peace. San Damiano emerged as the most important house in the order, and Clare became its undisputed leader. By 1263, just ten years after Clare's death, the order had become known as the
Order of Saint Clare. Unlike the
Franciscan friars, whose members moved around the country to preach, Clare's sisters lived in
enclosure, since an itinerant life was hardly conceivable at the time for women. Their life consisted of manual labour and prayer. The nuns went barefoot, slept on the ground, ate no meat, and observed almost complete silence. Clare referred to herself by such terms as mother, handmaid, or servant rather than an abbess. from the pope would allow her order to keep living in strict poverty as they wanted. Although
Innocent III had approved Clare's privilege and his successor
Honorius III had no issue with it, Honorius III's successor
Gregory IX did have a problem with Clare's lifestyle of strict poverty. Gregory IX was the Cardinal Huglino who had previously known and worked with Clare and her order at San Damiano. During this time, he came to care for Clare and she became very dear to him. Gregory IX worried that the health of the sisters would suffer unduly under the strict vow of poverty Clare wanted. During a visit to San Damiano, Gregory IX urged Clare to give up her way of strict poverty, stating that "if you fear because of your vow, We dispense you from it", to which she immediately responded, "Holy Father, never and in no way do I wish to be dispensed from following Christ!" At that moment, the Pope had no more objections, and during his second year as Pope reapproved the . == Late life ==