Dating In May 2019, Verrett began dating and professionally collaborating with
Princess Märtha Louise of Norway. Verrett and Märtha Louise co-organised a lecture tour titled "The Princess and the Shaman," which was widely criticised for the claims made by Verrett about healing cancer and for exploiting Märtha Louise's constitutional role as princess for a private business venture. The relationship between Verrett and Märtha Louise has been heavily scrutinized, with many Norwegians voicing their disapproval and calling Verrett a "charlatan." He has been characterized by Norwegian media and other critics as a
conman and a
conspiracy theorist, and his statements on various topics have been widely criticized and ridiculed in Norway. In October 2019, on his podcast
Ancient Wisdom Today, Verrett openly discussed his and his girlfriend's sex life and his techniques for controlling his orgasm to maximize partner satisfaction. The Norwegian press quickly picked up the story, with Dagbladet and Nettavisen publishing detailed accounts of Verrett's revelations. The publications were criticized by press ethicists for crossing the line of what should be reported from the private lives of public figures, with former Press Association secretary general
Per Edgar Kokkvold remarking that Verrett "should be protected from himself", but that the press also bore responsibility for its editorial choices. Following criticism, Verrett removed the podcast episode. Märtha Louise later commented that she had not been aware of the recording in advance, described it as a mistake on Verrett's part, and said that he had learned from the incident.
Engagement In June 2022, Märtha Louise announced that she and Verrett were engaged and the couple announced in September 2023 the date of their nuptials, followed by a warm official statement of the Norwegian King and Queen. The former Prime Minister of Norway
Erna Solberg described Verrett's views as "very strange" and "not based on facts," and said that "the ideas that he promotes are something that we combat as conspiracy theories." Solberg further said the criticism of Verrett is reasonable. State Secretary of the Norwegian
Ministry of Health and Care Services, Ole Henrik Krat Bjørkholt, described Verrett as "an unscrupulous and dangerous charlatan" who engages in
fraud. In 2022,
Aftenposten journalist Ingeborg Senneset wrote an open letter to Verrett, in which she addressed his habit of sending her voice messages, such as "Hey, my love" on
Instagram and telling her that the "
Illuminati" is real and that celebrities and powerful politicians corroborate his claims. Verrett subsequently blocked Senneset when she asked critical questions about his Illuminati claims. Both Verrett and Märtha Louise have complained about the negative reception of Verrett in Norway, and Verrett claimed he was criticized because "people don't want a black man in the royal family." Verrett said, "I have never experienced so much racism as when I came to Norway." He further said that he is misunderstood, comparing himself to "geniuses [like] Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison, the Wright brothers and Helen Keller." His claims of racism have been criticized, with former Norwegian cabinet minister
Abid Raja (of Pakistani descent) accusing Verrett of "playing the
race card" to distract from the criticism of his conspiracy theories and "dangerous" views. Comedian
Jonna Støme, himself of African American descent, said that Verrett's claims undermine the real fight against racism and that people in Norway react negatively to Verrett because "he is a conman who says horrible things." The political editor of
Nettavisen Erik Stephansen criticized Märtha Louise's complaints about the coverage of Verrett and herself, and wrote that she has "actively sought the spotlight with her entire family, exploited the princess title in every conceivable way – including commercially – and is now fully engaged in milking her own glamorous celebrity wedding in Geiranger for all it's worth." Royal historian Trond Norén Isaksen said that "for the sake of the monarchy's integrity and reputation, it is absolutely necessary to sever the formal ties with Princess Märtha Louise" and that it is necessary "to revoke the princess title that Märtha Louise has exploited to its fullest extent. The royal family cannot be for sale." In October 2022,
Crown Prince Haakon, Märtha Louise's brother, told Norwegian broadcaster
NRK that the matter of Verrett's position in their family is difficult and will take time to solve. In November 2022, Märtha Louise relinquished her remaining official duties to focus on her alternative medicine business with Verrett, and to differentiate more clearly between her own activities and her relationship to the
Royal House of Norway.
Marriage On 13 September 2023, Durek Verrett and Princess Märtha Louise announced that their wedding would take place in
Geiranger, a village located at the end of a
fjord (listed as a
UNESCO World Heritage Site) in the Western part of Norway, on 31 August 2024. Verrett and Märtha Louise sold the rights to the wedding to
Hello! Magazine. Norwegian media described the wedding as "comical" and "embarrassing," sparking outrage over perceived greed and betrayal of Norwegian traditions and the taxpayers who fund the monarchy. The decision to conceal themselves in a plastic tent and behind a curtain to prevent anyone but tabloid photographers from "Hello!" magazine from capturing images of their wedding was widely criticized as a display of "shame and greed." Norwegian media criticized King
Harald V for legitimizing and endorsing the exploitation of national values and symbols for Märtha Louise's and Durek Verrett's personal financial gain. Political scientist Torvald Valland Therkildsen described the royal family as a parody that is a source of embarrassment for Norway. Early in 2023, Verrett had claimed that Märtha Louise's late ex-husband,
Ari Behn, who died by suicide in 2019, Märtha Louise's antagonistic relationship with the media, stemming from the criticism over what critics describe as her commercial exploitation of the title "princess," led her to declare a boycott of Norwegian media in 2024. In August 2024 Verrett said that his relationship with Märtha Louise led to a rift between her and her closest friends. Verrett accused Märtha Louise's close friends of being racists. He said her friends had repeatedly called her and urged her to end the relationship with him. In a subsequent interview that Verrett and Märtha Louise conducted together, Märtha Louise also said she had lost friends and accused them of "racism," echoing Verrett's claims against her former friends. Verrett and Märtha Louise have been criticized for exploiting her title and role as a member of the extended royal family, deliberately disregarding an agreement not to use the title "Princess" or her connection to the royal family in any commercial activities, interviews, or other public activities. A majority of Norwegians favor the removal of her title.
Bergens Tidende questioned the claimed celebrity status of Verrett, describing him as "at best a
D-list celebrity in Hollywood" and characterized the guest list at his wedding as more akin to an Alternative (New Age) Fair than Hollywood. == Public image and reception ==