Auden wrote the poem in the first days of
World War II while visiting the father of his lover
Chester Kallman in
New Jersey (according to a communication of Kallman to friends, see Edward Mendelson,
Later Auden, p. 531). Even before printing the poem for the first time, Auden deleted two stanzas from the latter section, one of them proclaiming his faith in an inevitable "education of man" away from war and division. The two stanzas are printed in
Edward Mendelson's
Early Auden (1981). Soon after writing the poem, Auden began to turn away from it, apparently because he found it flattering to himself and to his readers. When he reprinted the poem in
The Collected Poetry of W. H. Auden (1945) he omitted the famous stanza that ends "We must love one another or die." In 1957, he wrote to the critic Laurence Lerner, "Between you and me, I loathe that poem" (quoted in Edward Mendelson,
Later Auden, p. 478). He resolved to omit it from his further collections, and it did not appear in his 1966
Collected Shorter Poems 1927–1957. In the mid-1950s Auden began to refuse permission to editors who asked to reprint the poem in anthologies. In 1955, he allowed
Oscar Williams to include it complete in
The New Pocket Anthology of American Verse, but altered the most famous line to read "We must love one another and die." Later he allowed the poem to be reprinted only once, in a
Penguin Books anthology
Poetry of the Thirties (1964), with a note saying about this and four other early poems, "Mr. W. H. Auden considers these five poems to be trash which he is ashamed to have written." ==Reception==