Shay was known for keeping her personal life extremely low-profile. Speaking on her privacy,
Jeff Jenkins, a friend of hers, once said: "It was held as high value in the family to be private .. She'll tell you the three most important people in her life are her mom and dad and her son. Well, her mom and dad are passed now, so maybe that gives her just a little bit of a feeling of their blessing to share her life." a third generation firefighter with the
LAFD, She had raised her son as a single mother after the couple divorced. He made a
guest appearance during the fourth episode in the first season of
Bling Empire. She had one granddaughter. One of her ex-husbands was from Ireland, with whom she visited
Ashford Castle once. A personal assistant had once stolen $3.4 million worth of jewelry, furs, and designer handbags from her home. Her jewelry collection was worth $13.4 million. Her most expensive piece was a platinum lady's 57-carat diamond necklace with an 8.31-carat green emerald - custom made by Vartan's Fine Jewelry in
Los Angeles - which estimated to cost $1.4 million. Her collection of 184 designer purses, travel bags, trunks with gold hardware, and wallets were estimated to be worth $1.1 million. She had collected 58 pieces of fine art that estimated to be worth $700k. She had owned a $40k
Steinway piano. Her collection of furs were worth an estimated $103k. Shay purchased a smaller mansion in
Beverly Hills, California, for $5.75 million in 2020. Her
Sunset Boulevard mansion - which she bought for $9.4 million in 2011 - sold for $13.8 million in 2021. She had also co-owned her childhood home in
Tokyo. == Death ==