Box office The film grossed a total of $1,522,377 at the box office.
Critical response She Hate Me received a sharply negative reaction from film critics. On
Rotten Tomatoes, it has an approval rating of 20% based on 102 reviews, with an average score of 4.10/10. The site's critic consensus reads, "
She Hate Me can't decide if it wants to be a commentary on corporate greed or a
sex farce". On
Metacritic, the film has a score of 30 out of 100 based on 37 reviews, indicating "generally unfavorable reviews". Many of the criticisms were focused on the film's messaging and the excesses of the plot.
Roger Ebert noted, "
She Hate Me contains enough for five movies, but has no idea which of those movies it wants to be.
Wesley Morris of
The Boston Globe opined, "the movie is rude and ridiculous, fearless up to a point, and breathtakingly hungry to provoke", but it "struggles between the audaciousness of its premise and an underlying defensiveness. The title...sounds like a jokey rebuke to people who've called Lee a misogynist. Yet when Lee tries to sober up
She Hate Me with apology, to stitch a heart on its sleeve, the movie feels untrue to itself." The film also generated controversy for its depiction of lesbian women and for portraying them as wanting to have sex with a man for procreative purposes. Trinidadian poet Erica Doyle commented that at the film's center is "an extensive male fantasy of having sex with lots of women — women who are usually inaccessible to most men." and Scott Foundas of
Variety lauded it as "a scabrous, provocative and often funny
social satire" with praise for the film's ensemble cast. Roger Ebert was also one of the few critics to give a positive review, awarding it three stars out of four. Ebert argued Lee knows the lesbian plot line is absurd, but uses it to "confront the pious liberal horror about such concepts as the inexhaustible black stud." Liam Carroll of
The Spool posited that in making Jack an object available for women, Lee is "perhaps...trying to turn the objectification of women on its head: Jack often strips for his clients, who woo and scream and goad him on...Or perhaps Lee is commenting on the hoary old stereotype of the black male's alleged potent sexual virility. Problem is, this all falls apart when you bring in the lesbian factor. If these were straight women ogling Jack and using him as a mere sperm bank, then that would be one thing, but making these women lesbians feels nonsensical at best, and reductive at worst." Carroll concluded the themes of corporate greed and sexual mores were more effectively explored in Lee's previous works.
Award nominations • BET Comedy Awards • Outstanding Directing for a Theatrical Film (
Spike Lee) • Outstanding Writing for a Theatrical Film (
Michael Genet and Spike Lee) •
Black Reel Awards •
Best Breakthrough Performance (
Anthony Mackie) •
Best Director (Spike Lee) • Best Original Score (
Terence Blanchard) •
Best Screenplay, Original or Adapted (Michael Genet and Spike Lee) ==References==