Early years Beauvoir was born on 9 January 1908, into a
bourgeois Parisian family in the
6th arrondissement. Her parents were Georges Bertrand de Beauvoir, a lawyer who once aspired to be an actor, and Françoise Beauvoir (née Brasseur), a wealthy banker's daughter and devout
Catholic. As her parents were often absent, Simone was primarily raised by her nanny Louise. After passing baccalaureate exams in mathematics and philosophy at the age of seventeen in 1925, she studied mathematics at the
Institut Catholique de Paris and literature/languages at the . in Paris, 1930s. Although not officially enrolled, she sat in on courses at the
École Normale Supérieure in preparation for the
agrégation in philosophy, a highly competitive postgraduate examination that serves as a national ranking of students. It was while studying for it that she met École Normale students
Jean-Paul Sartre,
Paul Nizan, and
René Maheu (who gave her the lasting nickname "
Castor", or "Beaver"). In 1929, the jury for the
agrégation narrowly awarded Sartre first place and gave second to Beauvoir. She was 21 years old which made her the youngest person to ever pass the exam. Additionally, Beauvoir finished an exam for the certificate of "General Philosophy and Logic" second to
Simone Weil. Her success as the eighth woman to pass the
agrégation solidified her economic independence. To explain her atheist beliefs, Beauvoir stated,
Middle years The family struggled to remain bourgeois after they lost much of their fortune shortly after
World War I and Françoise's insistence that her daughters attend a prestigious convent school. Because of her family's straitened circumstances, she could no longer rely on her
dowry. This put her marriage opportunities at risk. She took this as an opportunity to work towards earning her own living. She worked with
Maurice Merleau-Ponty and
Claude Lévi-Strauss, when all three completed their practice teaching requirements at the same secondary school. From 1929 through 1943, Beauvoir taught at the
lycée level until she could support herself solely on the earnings of her writings. She taught at the (
Marseille), the , and the
Lycée Molière (Paris) (1936–39). During the trial of
Robert Brasillach in 1945, Beauvoir was among a small number of prominent intellectuals advocating for his execution for the 'intellectual crimes' of supporting
Fascism and the genocide of Jewish people. She defended this decision in her 1946 essay "An Eye for an Eye".
Jean-Paul Sartre Beauvoir and Jean-Paul Sartre met during her college years. Intrigued by her determination as an educator, he intended to make their relationship romantic. However, she had no interest in doing so. After they were confronted by her father, Sartre asked her to marry him on a provisional basis. One day while they were sitting on a bench outside the Louvre, he said, "Let's sign a two-year lease". Though Beauvoir wrote, "Marriage was impossible. I had no dowry", scholars point out that her ideal relationships described in
The Second Sex and elsewhere bore little resemblance to the marriage standards of the day. I think marriage is a very alienating institution, for men as well as for women. I think it's a very dangerous institution—dangerous for men, who find themselves trapped, saddled with a wife and children to support; dangerous for women, who aren't financially independent and end up by depending on men who can throw them out when they are 40; and very dangerous for children, because their parents vent all their frustrations and mutual hatred on them. The very words 'conjugal rights' are dreadful. Any institution which solders one person to another, obliging people to sleep together who no longer want to is a bad one. Instead, she and Sartre entered into a lifelong "soul partnership", which was sexual but not exclusive, nor did it involve living together. She chose never to marry and never had children. This gave her the time to advance her education and engage in political causes, write and teach, and take lovers. Beauvoir's prominent open relationships at times overshadowed her academic reputation. A scholar who was lecturing with her chastised their "distinguished [Harvard] audience [because] every question asked about Sartre concerned his work, while all those asked about Beauvoir concerned her personal life." Beauvoir also connected with Sartre on an intellectual level, stating that he 'is in my heart, in my body and above all the incomparable friend of my thought.' However, recent studies of Beauvoir's work focus on influences other than Sartre, including
Hegel and Leibniz. However, Beauvoir, reading Hegel in German during the war, produced an original critique of his dialectic of consciousness.
Allegations of sexual abuse Beauvoir was
bisexual, and her relationships with young women were controversial. French author
Bianca Lamblin (originally Bianca Bienenfeld) wrote in her book ''Mémoires d'une jeune fille dérangée
(Memoirs of a deranged young girl, published in English under the title A Disgraceful Affair
) that, while a student at Lycée Molière, she was sexually exploited by her teacher Beauvoir, who was in her 30s. Beauvoir groomed the 16-year-old girl before introducing her to Sartre. The three had a sexually exploitative relationship over the course of three years. Bianca wrote her Mémoires'' in response to the posthumous 1990 publication of Jean-Paul Sartre's
Lettres au Castor et à quelques autres: 1926-1963 (Letters to Castor and other friends), in which she noted that she was referred to by the pseudonym Louise Védrine. Bianca, upon learning that she was given a pseudonym, stated she felt "nauseated and disgusted when [she] discovered the true personality of the woman [she] had loved all [her] life". Sorokine's parents laid formal charges against Beauvoir for debauching a minor (the age of consent in France at the time was 13 until 1945, when it became 15) and Beauvoir's licence to teach in France was revoked, although it was subsequently reinstated. Beauvoir described in ''La Force de l'âge
(The Prime of Life
) a relationship of simple friendship with Sorokine (in the book referred to as "Lise Oblanoff"). However, both Sorokine and Lamblin—along with Olga Kosakiewicz—stated later that their relationships with Beauvoir had damaged them psychologically. but perhaps her most famous lover was American author Nelson Algren. Beauvoir met Algren in Chicago in 1947, while she was on a four-month "exploration" trip of the United States using various means of transport: automobile, train, and Greyhound. She kept a detailed diary of the trip, which was published in France in 1948 with the title America Day by Day. She wrote to him across the Atlantic as "my beloved husband." Algren won the National Book Award for The Man with the Golden Arm'' in 1950, and in 1954, Beauvoir won France's
most prestigious literary prize for
The Mandarins, in which Algren is the character Lewis Brogan. Algren vociferously objected to their intimacy becoming public. Years after they separated, she was buried wearing his gift of a silver ring. When Beauvoir visited Algren in Chicago,
Art Shay took well-known nude and portrait photos of Beauvoir. Shay also wrote a play based on Algren, Beauvoir, and Sartre's triangular relationship. The play was stage read in 1999 in Chicago.
Autobiographical and travel writing Beauvoir also wrote a four-volume autobiography, consisting of
Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter,
The Prime of Life,
Force of Circumstance (sometimes published in two volumes in English translation:
After the War and
Hard Times), and
All Said and Done. Beauvoir wrote popular travel diaries, such as
America Day by Day, about time spent in the United States. She published essays and fiction rigorously, especially throughout the 1950s and 1960s. Her 1955 travels in China were the basis of her 1957 travelogue
The Long March, in which she praised the efforts of the Chinese communists to
emancipate women.
Short stories She published several volumes of short stories, including
The Woman Destroyed, which, like some of her other later work, deals with ageing.
When Things of the Spirit Come First, a set of short stories Beauvoir had written decades previously but had not considered worth publishing, was released in 1980. In about 1976, Beauvoir and
Sylvie Le Bon made a trip to New York City in the United States to visit
Kate Millett on her farm. In 1977, Beauvoir signed a
petition along with other French intellectuals that supported the freeing of three arrested
paedophiles. The petition explicitly addresses the 'Affaire de Versailles', where three adult men, Dejager (age 45), Gallien (age 43), and Burckhardt (age 39) had sexual relations with minors of both sexes aged 12–13. . She contributed the piece "Feminism - Alive, Well, and in Constant Danger" to the 1984 anthology ''
Sisterhood Is Global: The International Women's Movement Anthology'', edited by
Robin Morgan.
Jean-Paul Sartre's death In 1981, she wrote
La Cérémonie des adieux (
A Farewell to Sartre), a painful account of Sartre's last years. In the opening of
Adieux, Beauvoir notes that it is the only major published work of hers which Sartre did not read before its publication. After Sartre died in 1980, Beauvoir published his letters to her with edits to spare the feelings of people in their circle who were still living. After Beauvoir's death, Sartre's adopted daughter and literary heir
Arlette Elkaïm would not let many of Sartre's letters be published in unedited form. Most of Sartre's letters available today have Beauvoir's edits, which include a few omissions but mostly the use of pseudonyms. Beauvoir's adopted daughter and literary heir
Sylvie Le Bon, unlike Elkaïm, published Beauvoir's unedited letters to both Sartre and Algren.
Sylvie Le Bon-de Beauvoir Sylvie Le Bon-de Beauvoir and Simone de Beauvoir met in the 1960s, when Beauvoir was in her fifties, and Sylvie was a teenager. In 1980, Beauvoir, 72, legally adopted Sylvie, who was in her late thirties, by which point they had already been in an intimate relationship for decades. Although Beauvoir rejected the institution of marriage her entire life, this adoption was like a marriage for her. Some scholars argue that this adoption was not to secure a literary heir for Beauvoir but as a form of resistance to the bio-heteronormative
family unit.
Death Beauvoir died of
pneumonia on 14 April 1986 in Paris, aged 78. She is buried next to Sartre at the
Montparnasse Cemetery in Paris. She was honoured as a figure at the forefront of the struggle for women's rights around the time of her death. ==
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