He was described as "a gentleman of a very ancient family and a large estate" Palmer married, firstly, Elizabeth Marsham (1683–1714) on 18 November 1700; she was the daughter of
Sir Robert Marsham, 4th Baronet and sister to
Robert Marsham, 1st Baron Romney. Their surviving children and co-heiresses were: • Anne Palmer (b. 21 Aug 1709 – Apr 1795) m.
Hon. Edward Finch (later Finch-Hatton) • Mary Palmer (b. 1712 – d. 8 Aug 1757) m.
Daniel Finch, 8th Earl of Winchilsea • Elizabeth Palmer (b. 26 Jul 1714 – d. 16 Feb 1742/43) m.
Sir Brook Bridges, secondly m.
Hon. Charles Fielding Palmer had fathered an illegitimate child, Herbert, on an actress Susanna Cox whom he married in about 1715.
Alexander Pope wrote a scurrilous couplet in reference: To P—l—r's bed no actress comes amiss He courts the whole Personae Dramatis. Susanna died in January 1721 and he married again, in the Fleet, Elizabeth, a "spinster of Covent Garden". Palmer died on 8 November 1723. By his first wife he had three sons and four daughters of whom only three daughters survived him and became co-heiresses to his estate. He had one daughter by his third wife. He left his widow a life interest in the Wingham estate, which, after her death, was to pass to his son, Herbert. The baronetcy passed to his cousin
Charles Palmer. ==References==