Sofia was born the eldest daughter of the statesman and public figure Ivan Feodorvich Tyutchev (1846-1909), the son of poet
Fyodor Tyutchev, and Olga Nikolaevna (nee Putyata, 1840-1920). She was born in
Smolensk, where her father served in the Chamber of Criminal and Civil courts, and then as an associate prosecutor in the Smolensk District Court. In 1872, Ivan Tyutchev was appointed a member of the Moscow District Court, and in 1875, he was elected magistrate of the Dmitrov district of Moscow province. From that time on, the family lived permanently in
Muranovo. She received an education at home. In 1896, Tyutcheva was made a
maid of honour to
Empress Alexandra Feodorovna. Distinguished by her active and hardworking character, in her free time from duties, she worked in various charitable institutions under the patronage of
Grand Duchess Elizabeth Feodorovna. She also worked for the Society for the Care of Children of Poor Parents. She would later record her memories from this time with the Imperial family in 1945, which were published in 1997. According to contemporaries who knew her personally, she was direct, honest, and democratic. She knew how to endure all surprises of fate and stand firmly on her feet. She combined great intelligence, independence of judgement, dedication, and love for children."She did not obey the demands of her elders, she led her own line with the royal children. It is possible that her educational direction was more rational, but it was not her taste, and she persisted, like all the Tyutchevs, she was stubborn and persistent."In 1912, Tyutcheva was fired. According to her, this was because she had seen
Grigori Rasputin, enter the room of the grand duchesses without permission, where they were dressed in nightgowns, and bless them for bed, which she then reported to the Emperor.
Lili Dehn, friend of the Empress, describes this differently:"Mademoiselle Tyutcheva was never the governess of Their Highnesses and could not see Rasputin blessing them, since this did not happen. The Emperor would not have allowed this to happen even if Her Majesty had wished it. Well, the Empress did not at all believe that such a procedure was necessary to save the souls of her daughters. And Tyutcheva became a victim of her own arrogance and envy."According to Dehn, Sofia Tyutcheva had an unyielding, quarrelsome character, and promoted rumours to justify her dismissal. Sofia Ivanovna Tyutcheva died on 31 August 1957, at the age of 87, in Muranovo. She was buried in the nearby village of Rakhmanovo. ==Reference section==