Upon the death of her brother-in-law on 18 September 1872, Sophia became
queen consort of Sweden and
Norway. At that time, there was a tense political situation and demands for a republic. Oscar was initially not popular, but there were hopes that he would let himself be guided by the advice of Sophia, who was considered politically insightful. Also in Norway, there were hopes that Sophia would use her influence on Oscar to introduce a more equal place in the union. Sophia was crowned with Oscar in
Stockholm in Sweden 12 May and in Trondhjem (now
Trondheim) in Norway 18 June 1873. In Norway, the couple made a tour around the country in connection to the coronation which has been described as a triumph. In 1875, the king and queen made a tour in Europe. They first visited
Denmark and after this
Berlin and then
Dresden. The visit to
King Albert of Saxony and his Queen,
Carola of Vasa in Dresden was considered significant, as this meant a symbolic peace between the
Bernadotte dynasty and the deposed
Vasa dynasty, as Queen Carola was the granddaughter of the deposed king
Gustav IV Adolf and let it be known that the past was forgotten. After Dresden, Sophia interrupted the tour for health reasons while Oscar continued to
Weimar and
Russia. Another important event was the uncovering of the statue of
Charles XIV John in Christiania (since 1926
Oslo) on 7 September 1875, which was celebrated with great festivities with invited foreign royalty and military parades and considered a memorable propaganda occasion. Another important event as Queen of Norway was the stay at
Moss in 1877 with the former
Prince Imperial Napoleon of France. During the autumns, the royal couples normally stayed at
Drottningholm Palace, where they received foreign royal dignitaries and hosted ceremonial parties. During the winters, they engaged in representation in both Stockholm and in Christiania. When visiting Norway, they were met by the border by a separate Norwegian court, who served during their stay there. In Norway, her principal ladies-in-waiting were
Alette Due and
Elise Løvenskiold. Sophia was known to dress spectacular at formal occasions, with many jewels, much lace and ornaments and bright colors such as red and blue. Oscar II normally spent his summers with his friends at his yacht
Drott at
Marstrand, while Sophia often spent her summers first at the
Ulriksdal Palace, and in later years more often in Norway. From 1892 until 1904, she spent her Norwegian summers at
Skinnarbøl manor outside
Kongsvinger, where she is remembered for her simple life style and generosity toward the local population. She was popular in Norway, and described as the queen who had spent the most time in Norway among all the queens during the union Sweden-Norway. Sophia herself described the years between 1873 and 1878 as years of crisis for her. During these years, Oscar had several affairs, notably with
Magda von Dolcke and with
Marie Friberg. Oscar's affair with Magda von Dolcke begun in 1874 and attracted great attention, and he benefited her career at the Royal Dramatic theatre and gave her an allowance. Though she did not demonstrate, Sophia is believed to have suffered from his adultery. It is related how Sophia traveled to Germany to look for comfort with her half sister
Marie of Wied, who, it is believed, advised her to accept the situation. At one occasion, the king had a courtier sent to the opera singer
Ida Basilier-Magelssen with a request of a "private audience", and she replied: "Tell His Majesty that he may have a private audience with his good and beautiful Queen. I have others things to do than to have private conferences with old gentlemen!" Sophia preferred a private life, such as dinners and musical soirees in the company of family members and her ladies-in-waiting. Queen Sophia suffered from poor health: in 1875-1877, for example, she was almost constantly absent abroad for health reasons, and though it was better after 1877, she continued to visit particularly
Amsterdam for the medical care of Doctor Metzger. During a visit to
Paris, she caused great attention when she dined at a public restaurant: this was unusual for a royal woman at this time, and it was also the only time she ever did that. They also visited Romania. , ca 1900. Queen Sophia performed a great effort in her work to improve medical care, and founded the first
nursing school in Sweden. She studied the work of
Florence Nightingale, and visited
Great Britain with Oscar in 1881, where they were received by
Queen Victoria. During her visit, she studied the modern medical institutions in
London. Upon her return, she launched a project to educate professional nurses in Sweden. This work was only just started by the pioneering work of
Emmy Rappe in 1867, but there was as yet no proper educational institution for nurses, and the medical world was sceptical. In 1882 she managed to arrange classes for nurses at the
Sabbatsberg Hospital; 1884 she opened the
Sophiahemmet University College for the students; and in 1889 it was developed to the
Sophiahemmet, a combined hospital and school for nurses. The Sophiahemmet was seen as a role model for the education of nurses in Sweden, and it is also seen as the proper establishment of the nurse profession in Sweden. Sophia was very active in increasing respect for the nursing profession among doctors, who did not consider the work to be suitable for an educated female, and to make the profession respected, she wished for the profession to be seen as a religious calling and that it be undertaken by medically educated women, and she encouraged upper-class women to be nurses, all because she wanted nurses to be respected: the first head of her nursing school was the noble Alfhild Ehrenborg, who was a student of
Florence Nightingale, and the Queen was actively involved in the institution until her death. In her nursing school, even students from the aristocracy were expected to scrub the floors. Two students of Sophiahemmet, Alma Brunskog and Olga Claréus was to have great significance for the medical care in Norway. Sophia chaired about fifty different charity organisations in Sweden and Norway. She received help seekers once a week, supported
The Salvation Army and founded many organisations herself. Sophia was reportedly closest to her sons
Oscar, whose religious interests she shared, and
Eugen. In 1886, she supported Eugen, who wanted to study art in Paris. She also supported Oscar in his wish to marry the noble lady-in-waiting
Ebba Munck af Fulkila. Her son Eugen said of her that human worth and justice almost had a higher standing with her than her deep piety. In 1887, she was forced to undergo an
ovariotomy operation. The operation was considered potentially life-threatening. Before the operation, she made her will. She also took a vow of Oscar II, that should she survive the operation, the King would allow for Oscar to finally marry Ebba Munck. After the operation, Oscar made use of this and the wedding could finally take place. The surgery was considered a success, but afterwards she had difficulty walking and was occasionally forced to use a wheelchair. Despite this she continued riding. In 1881, she attended the wedding of her son,
Crown Prince Gustav, to
Victoria of Baden in
Karlsruhe. Sophia had preferred her son to marry
Princess Beatrice of the United Kingdom, as she had great admiration for
Queen Victoria, but was initially very enthusiastic about the choice of Victoria of Baden, as she was a descendant of the former Swedish
Vasa dynasty. Her relationship with her daughter-in-law was, however, to become tense. During the 1884 crisis, her influence was evident as it was she who convinced Oscar to allow the left wing
Johan Sverdrup to form a Norwegian government: "Her influence over the King was great and well known. She was as firm as he was weak, as calm as he was unstable and nervous. Until March 1884 she supported him in his resistance, but in April 1884 she changed strategy and realized that resistance would only damage the monarchy. As early as that, she told the King to support Johan Sverdrup." During the crisis of 1898, the Norwegians began to use their own flag, Oscar II threatened to abdicate and Prime Minister
Boström to resign. The queen calmed the situation and convinced them both to remain at their posts. Queen Sophia is credited with using her influence to prevent military intervention and war during the dissolution of the union Sweden-Norway in 1905. ==Queen dowager==