Dedekam returned to Arendal and resumed her musical and social activity there. She continued to chronicle concerts she attended and concerts in which she performed, but only listed the events without additional commentary. The death of her mother in 1854 inspired Dedekam to a deeper spirituality and to embrace the pietistic movement emerging in Arendal at that time. As an unmarried woman, the death of Sophie’s father in 1861 resulted in diminished economic resources that compelled her to live with family and friends for the rest of her life. She stayed with her life-long friend, the folklorist, bishop, and poet
Jørgen Moe and his wife, as well as with relatives in Christiania (now Oslo). However, her main residence was the Kjonerud farm near
Hamar, Norway--the home of Sophie’s sister Cathrine and her husband Waldemar Harboe. Sophie’s niece, Emma Ree, wrote about her aunt Sophie’s presence at the Kjonerud farm: "With her [Sophie] many things went well, and there was always music in the home. She had a gift for bringing the best out of people, and even when they felt depressed she could talk to them and make them feel better." Emma Ree also recalled "Ah, I remember the evenings when she would gather everyone, young and old, family members and guests, around the piano. We loved to hear her sing, and her repertoire was great, ranging from Norwegian folk songs to lieder by
Schubert to Danish vaudeville songs to the music of
Halfdan Kjerulf and the
Gunnar Wennerberg 'Psalms of David,' as well as her own songs. Each of us had a personal favorite. On the whole, she inspired us to appreciate great literature, great art, and everything that is pure and good." Sophie Dedekam died peacefully at the Kjonerud farm on June 1, 1894. In her book on early Norwegian women composers, Cecilie Dahm concludes her chapter on Sophie Dedekam by writing "Sophie Dedekam was educated at home for the home. Her musical talent unfolded in her family circle, her writing talent in letters and diaries. [As a woman in 19th century Norway] she had no other alternatives. Sophie probably didn’t think about that; she lived in harmony with her times. It would be some time before women began to look differently at their talents and how they could express them." ==Musical Legacy==