The film begins in the spring and documents Eads' life through the following winter. Eads falls in love with Lola, a
transgender woman. He spends those remaining warm days in the company of his "
chosen family": Maxwell, Cas, and "the rest". That summer, his mother and father drive ten hours to visit Robert, who is still their daughter in their eyes. His son and grandson also come to visit him that summer. His son struggles to gender him correctly and says he will always be "mom" in his eyes. But his grandson knows and has always known him as "papaw". Later that year, Eads makes his last appearance at the
Southern Comfort Conference in
Atlanta, Georgia, a prominent
transgender gathering. Already feeling ill, he addresses a crowd of 500 and takes Lola to what is for them a
prom that never was. Shortly after the conference, Eads dies in a nursing home with his chosen family beside him. After Eads' death, his
ashes were spread across the family farm around a lone Christmas tree which was to symbolize Robert's many changes and blossomings in life. Eads' friends, Tom and Debbie King, also appear in the film. They saved Eads' life when he collapsed in a pool of his own blood while staying with them. They initially sought treatment for Eads but were unable to locate a doctor willing to treat a transgender man. Eads' lifelong struggle to have his outer appearance match his inner self is a salient theme in the movie. All persons portrayed in the movie wrestle with themes of rejection from others, rejection of self, feeling ostracized from humanity and ultimately crafting their own lives and personal support systems. ==Reception==