On 1 June 1954 Spencer and the
Hon. Frances Ruth Roche, the younger daughter of the
4th Baron Fermoy, were married in
Westminster Abbey by
Percy Herbert,
Bishop of Norwich.
Queen Elizabeth II and other members of the
royal family attended the wedding ceremony. They had five children: •
Lady Elizabeth Sarah Lavinia Spencer (born 19 March 1955), goddaughter of
Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother, married Neil Edmund
McCorquodale on 17 May 1980 and had issue •
Lady Cynthia Jane Spencer (born 11 February 1957), goddaughter of
Prince Edward, Duke of Kent, married
Robert Fellowes, Baron Fellowes, on 20 April 1978 and had issue •
Hon. John Spencer (12 January 1960 – 12 January 1960), died within ten hours of his birth at
Park House, Sandringham. •
Lady Diana Frances Spencer (1 July 1961 –
31 August 1997),
married to Charles,
Prince of Wales (later
Charles III), from 1981 to 1996 and had issue •
Charles Edward Maurice Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer (born 20 May 1964), godson of
Queen Elizabeth II, married first to
Victoria Lockwood from 1989 to 1997 and had issue, married second to Caroline Hutton from 2001 to 2007 and had issue, and married third to
Karen Villeneuve on 18 June 2011 and had issue According to author
Penny Junor "Johnny could be violent, and [Frances] felt she and her children would be safer out of the home". Their daughter Diana also recalled "seeing my father slap my mother across the face and I was hiding behind the door and she was crying". John and Frances Spencer were divorced in 1969. Immediately thereafter, Frances married Peter Shand Kydd and John was granted custody of their children by the courts after his former mother-in-law,
Ruth Roche, Baroness Fermoy, testified against her own daughter. In 1976, Lord Spencer married
Raine McCorquodale, the former wife of the
9th Earl of Dartmouth and daughter of Captain Alexander McCorquodale, a British Army officer, and the romantic novelist Dame
Barbara Cartland. In 1978, Spencer suffered a severe stroke, He died of a heart attack in 1992, and was succeeded by his only surviving son, Charles. His funeral was held at the Church of St Mary the Virgin,
Great Brington, and his ashes were interred in the family vault beneath the Spencer chapel. ==Coat of arms==