Noades quickly became tired of manager
Dario Gradi, who had only been appointed in the summer. With the club facing successive relegations once again, Gradi was dismissed in November, and Kember got his first taste of management. He had a relatively successful period, taking the club on an FA Cup run to the Sixth Round, and achieving Second Division survival with a game to spare. However, for reasons unknown, he was replaced with the highly unpopular
Alan Mullery. Kember said of the matter that he was "away on holiday at the time" and thus wasn't even notified of his dismissal. He then joined non-league
Whyteleafe in November 1986, as manager, helping them to the Third Qualifying Round of the FA Cup in the
1988–89 and
1989–90 seasons. In the former, "The Leafe" were also promoted, to the
Isthmian League Division One. In the summer of 1993, Kember resigned (to be replaced by former Palace teammate
Paul Hinshelwood) and once again went back to Palace, as a member of the coaching staff. He stayed in that role until April 2001, when, with Palace once again facing relegation to the third tier, manager
Alan Smith was sacked by new chairman
Simon Jordan, and Kember was made caretaker for the remaining two games of the season. Palace were six points short of survival, and it seemed unlikely that relegation could be avoided. However, Kember made changes to the side, and after a last-gasp win at
Stockport County, Palace survived. In honour of this achievement, chairman Jordan said that Kember would now have a "job for life" at Palace. However, this was not the managerial job just yet.
Steve Bruce took over, and Kember was made his assistant. Bruce's tenure only lasted a couple of months, and, after Kember was again made caretaker (this time with
Terry Bullivant),
Trevor Francis took over. Francis was unpopular with the fans in his 14 months with the club, and was eventually sacked in February 2003, with Kember again being made caretaker, this time alone. At the end of the season, Kember was made manager full-time, and Palace's
2003–04 season got off to a flying start, the club winning all three of their opening games, to top the table. However by November, Palace were in 20th, and only two points above the drop-zone after losing 5–0 at newly promoted
Wigan Athletic. Jordan saw this as the final straw, and Kember was sacked, clearly revoking Jordan's "job for life" pledge. Kember coached at
Cumnor House School in
Purley, and later coached football and cricket at
Whitgift School,
South London, alongside
scouting for
Fulham initially, and then returning to
Crystal Palace as Chief Scout after the departure of Jordan. Currently manages the Old Mid Whitgiftian Vets who won the Surrey Vets Cup season 2018–2019, his sons play in the team. ==Personal life==