There are a number of ways in which school bullying takes place. These include verbal, physical, psychological, cyber, and sexual bullying. Direct bullying refers to an open physical or verbal attack on a victim. Indirect bullying is more subtle and harder to detect, but involves one or more forms of relational aggression, including
social isolation via intentional exclusion, spreading rumors to defame the target's character or reputation, making faces or obscene gestures behind the target's back, and manipulating friendships or other relationships. ''
Physical Physical bullying is any unwanted physical contact between the bully and the victim. This is one of the most easily identifiable forms of bullying. Examples include: fighting,
hazing,
headlocks, inappropriate touching, kicking, pinching, poking, hair pulling, punching, pushing, slapping, spitting, stalking, or making unwanted and persistent eye contact with a victim, spilling liquids onto a victim, throwing small and lightweight objects at a victim,
teasing, threatening,
tickling, using weapons including improvised ones, theft and/or damaging of personal belongings.
Emotional Emotional bullying is any form of bullying that causes damage to a victim's
psyche and/or
emotional well-being. Examples include:
Verbal Verbal bullying are slanderous statements or accusations that cause the victim undue emotional distress. Examples include: taunting, According to the website Stop Cyberbullying, schools experience difficulties in controlling off-campus bullying due to the perception that their role stops at the gates of the schoolyard. Schools are under pressure to not exceed their authority and to avoid violating students' right to free speech. Suggestions have been made that principals act to include cyberbullying in their code of ethics, allowing disciplining of bullying outside of school facilities and according to Professor Bernard James, "the timidity of educators in this context of emerging technology is working in the advantage of the bullies". Educators do appear to have support from the students. For example, three high school students from
Melville, New York, organized a Bullying Awareness Walk, where several hundred people turned out to show their support. Researcher Charisse Nixon found that students do not reach out for help with cyberbullying for four main reasons: • They do not feel connected to the adults around them • The students do not see cyberbullying as an issue that is worth bringing forward • They do not feel the surrounding adults have the ability to properly deal with the cyberbullying • The teenagers have increased feelings of shame and humiliation regarding the cyberbullying. Research suggests that cyberbullying is sometimes an extension of bullying already taking place elsewhere. Students who are cyberbullied have, in many cases, also been bullied in other ways before (e.g., physically or verbally at school). There are few students who are bullied exclusively over the Internet. Some cyber victims are physically stronger than cyber bullies, which leads these bullies to prefer online confrontations to face-to-face contact. Cyberbullying is defined as aggressive, intentional act of harm by a group or individual using electronic forms of contact, and it is done repeatedly and over time, against a victim who cannot easily defend themselves. Cyberbullying is a relatively complex and relevant phenomenon during the adolescent age period with serious negative consequences for both victims and aggressors. Research demonstrates that learning experiences of cyberbullying are significantly associated with maladaptive behaviors in school, a general increase in aggression, and maladaptive personality traits.
Sexual Sexual bullying is "any bullying behaviour, whether physical or non-physical, that is based on a person's sexuality or gender." A
BBC Panorama questionnaire aimed at English teens aged 11 to 19 found that, of the 273 respondents, 28 had been forced to do something sexual, 31 had seen it happen to someone else, and 40 had experienced unwanted touching. U.K. government figures show that in the 2007–2008 school year, there were 3,450 fixed-period exclusions and 120 expulsions from schools in England due to sexual misconduct. This included incidents such as
groping and using sexually insulting language. From April 2008 to March 2009,
ChildLine counselled a total of 156,729 children, 26,134 of whom spoke about bullying as a main concern and 300 of whom spoke specifically about sexual bullying.
Sexting cases are also on the rise and have become a major source of bullying and the circulation of explicit photos of those involved, either around school or on the internet, put the originators in a position to be scorned and bullied. There have been reports of some cases in which the bullying has been so extensive that the victim has taken their life. == Bullying in higher education ==