Upon
their father's election as President, both Tad and Willie moved into the White House and it became their new playground and home. At the request of Mrs. Lincoln,
Julia Taft brought her younger brothers, 14-year-old "Bud" (Horatio Nelson Taft Jr., 1847–1915) and 12-year-old "Holly" (Halsey Cook Taft, 1849–1897), to the White House, and they became playmates of the two young Lincolns. In February 1862, both Lincoln boys contracted
typhoid fever and both boys were bedridden. Willie died on February 20, while Tad recovered. However he cried frequently for a month, not only for his brother's death, but for the loss of his other two playmates Bud and Holly, for his mother sent them away after Willie's death, because they reminded her too much of him. After Willie's death, Tad's parents became even more lenient toward Tad's behavior, and Tad spent nearly all his time with his father. During the time his father was alive, Tad was impulsive and unrestrained, and did not attend school.
John Hay wrote that the boy's numerous tutors in the White House usually quit in frustration. Tad had free run of the White House, and there are stories of him interrupting presidential meetings, collecting animals, charging visitors to see his father, and more. A likely apocryphal story states that Abraham
pardoned Tad's Christmas turkey in 1863, which according to the myth, served as the inspiration for modern turkey pardons for
Thanksgiving (a holiday that was nationalized that year under Abraham's presidency). The story was not published until after Abraham's death, and its context suggests that it was a fable not unlike
George Washington and the cherry tree. The tradition of Thanksgiving turkey presentations did not begin until 1947, and the pardon portion was not added until 1989, with
George H. W. Bush remarking that the pardon reference originated at the whim of his speechwriter. On April 14, 1865, Tad went to
Grover's Theatre to see the play
Aladdin and the Wonderful Lamp while his parents attended the performance of
Tom Taylor's play
Our American Cousin at
Ford's Theatre. That night, his father
was assassinated by
Confederate sympathizer
John Wilkes Booth. When news of the assassination spread to Grover's Theatre, the manager made an announcement to the entire audience. Tad began running and screaming: "They killed Papa! They killed Papa!" Tad was escorted back to the White House, while his mother pleaded to have him brought to his father's deathbed at the
Petersen House. "Bring Tad—he will speak to Tad—he loves him so." Late that night, an inconsolable Tad was put to bed by a White House doorman. President Lincoln died the next morning, on Saturday, April 15, at 7:22 am. About the death of his father, Tad said: Pa is dead. I can hardly believe that I shall never see him again. I must learn to take care of myself now. Yes, Pa is dead, and I am only Tad Lincoln now, little Tad, like other little boys. I am not a president's son now. I won't have many presents anymore. Well, I will try and be a good boy, and will hope to go someday to Pa and brother Willie, in Heaven. ==Later life==