After studying together, and then meeting at a college reunion in 1998, on 16 September 2001 Beckett married the Hon.
Edward Charles d'Olier Gibson (born 31 December 1967), son of and heir then apparent to
Baron Ashbourne. The couple have three children. She lives in the village of
Lewknor, Oxfordshire. In November 2013, d'Olier Gibson appeared in
Oxford magistrates' court after allegedly assaulting Beckett at their home during a discussion over their possible divorce. Beckett called the police, who in trying to restrain d'Olier Gibson used
pepper spray and struck him with a baton. Having discovered a missing shotgun, he was eventually arrested after armed police were called to the property. d'Olier Gibson was charged with assaulting both Beckett and arresting officer PC Aaron Walker; he denied both charges. Convicted for his "sustained and drunken" attack on PC Walker, he was ordered to wear an
electronic tag for two months and given a curfew. On release, d'Olier Gibson started divorce proceedings. ==References==