Ted's relationship with his family has been the subject of discussion, as has his fulfillment of certain parental archetypes of the time.
The Mary Sue writer Rachel Leishman stated that she always felt that Ted and Karen were a mismatched couple, expressing a desire for them to get divorced due to Karen being a "lively, fun woman" while Ted just sits and watches television. She was particularly worried about their fates in season 5, stating that if one of them dies, the marriage will still be intact, which she believed would illustrate to the kids that a couple should stick together no matter what. Discussing the support for
Ronald Reagan in the 1980s, author Tracey Mollet felt that he and Karen, described by her as "oblivious parents", represented that support. She also touched upon the "ignorance" of the fathers in
Stranger Things, which Ted particularly represented to Mollet, citing his unawareness of Mike's disinterest in sports and that he may be hiding a girl in their basement. Quoting Elizabeth Traube, who claimed that experts believed that dads in the 1980s had two key functions: to provide "good sex" to his wife and "inculcate children with their appropriate gender or sex roles", Mollet felt that Ted failed in both these respects, citing Nancy's belief that her parents don't love each other and Ted's inability to connect with his son over Mike's romantic feelings for Eleven.
Nerdist writer Michael Walsh stated that, while Ted has been present since the very beginning of the series, he is a "useless" character, describing him as a "lazy, unengaged, wholly disinterested dork who spends most of his free time either sleeping or watching TV" who offloads all the childcare to his wife. Walsh believed Ted was lucky to be with Karen, arguing that she was much more attractive than him. Author Melissa Vosen Callens believed that the
nuclear family of the Wheelers contrasted with the chaotic single-parent household of the Byers, stating that while the latter was unkempt, the Byers had "genuine interactions" that the Wheelers lack. Author Brenda Boudreau drew comparisons between Ted and Lonnie, Joyce's ex-husband, calling both of them "weak and uninvolved" people who both lack an interest in their children's lives. Author Dustin Freeley believed that Ted blended into the background of scenes, in one case literally, his clothing matching the background he was in.
Cinema Blend writer Laura Hurley argued that, while Ted was an absent father, he was an invaluable part of the family due to his earnings, which afforded Mike a basement to hide Eleven in and Nancy access to a phone, as well as a trip to California for Mike and Nancy's college ambitions. During season 2, a fan theory emerged that suggested Ted was the main antagonist of the series;
GamesRadar+ writer Lauren Milici stated that she did not believe that, but that she could believe that Ted knows more than he is letting on. She discussed various aspects of this theory, such as the belief that his chair was special due to Eleven having a "weird feeling" when sitting in it and the main antagonist,
Vecna, showing Nancy a vision of her family dying that excluded Ted. She found herself unsure whether this was part of the running joke that he does not matter or a clue, stating that she hopes Ted ends up being a villain by the end of the series. In response to a perceived disinterest for his well-being in season 5,
The Ringer writer Daniel Chin wrote an article devoted to him, calling him a "running joke" and "source of humor" in the show. He discussed a scene where he was largely absent in an argument at the dinner table, only to question what he did when Nancy and Mike storm off. Chin considered this a "microcosm" for Ted's place in the narrative of the show. Laura Hurley, writing for
Cinema Blend, also identified a disinterest in Ted's well-being, stating that he was probably the least-favorite character in his household and uncommon on people's favorite character lists. Despite this, she identified him as having good one-liners, and commended him for defending his family from the Demogorgon. ==References==