Betsy Machiko Arakawa was born on December 15, 1959, raised in
Honolulu, Hawaii, An only child, she was raised by her mother, who was a businesswoman. She went to Kahala Elementary School and
Punahou School. Arakawa studied social sciences and communication at the
University of Southern California from 1981 to 1983. She later completed a master's degree in liberal arts at
St. John's College in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Arakawa met Hackman in the 1980s while working part-time at a Los Angeles fitness center when he had forgotten his membership card and she refused to let him in. Arakawa and Hackman acquired a property on Old Sunset Trail, a residential area in the
mountains of Santa Fe, New Mexico. Their home also had a separate studio building that had Arakawa's grand pianos on one side and Hackman's art studio on the other. after which Arakawa stopped performing in concert. In his later life, Hackman wrote and published three historical novels with anthropologist Daniel Lenihan; Arakawa assisted by typing Hackman's handwritten notes, editing, and providing feedback. In the acknowledgments of the 2004 novel,
Justice for None, the co-authors thanked her for intervening when their disagreements became heated. In 2001, Arakawa and her close friend Barbara Lenihan co-founded a linens and home furnishings store in Santa Fe named Pandora's, which she ran until her death. Arakawa and Hackman were also business partners in a local Asian restaurant called Jinja, where she had helped with the menu. In the later years of Hackman's life, Arakawa was his sole caregiver as his health worsened and he suffered from the effects of
Alzheimer's disease. Their friend Tom Allin told
The New York Times that she was "very protective" of her husband. Arakawa managed Hackman's social life, including games of golf and visits from friends, as he apparently did not use a mobile phone. Arakawa looked after his diet in light of his heart condition, including mixing soda water into his wine at a friend's 90th birthday party in 2020. == Death ==