Graham was born
Barbara Elaine Ford in Oakland, California to Hortense Ford from
Santa Cruz, who earned her living through prostitution. Hortense was of Portuguese (
Azorean) descent on her father's side, the original family name having been Furtado. On February 23, 1925, Hortense, still unwed, gave birth to a second daughter, Claire Elizabeth. On October 10, 1929, at the age of 23, Hortense married Joseph Wood Sr. in
Alameda. Hortense, Barbara and Claire all changed their surnames to Wood. Hortense and Joseph's son, Joseph Robert Wood Jr., was born on March 27, 1930; however Joseph Sr. died on January 19, 1930, at the age of 28, before his son's birth. When Ford was two, her mother, who was still in her late teens, was arrested and sent to
reform school and Ford was placed in foster care in which she alleged that she was beaten and treated poorly. Upon release at age 21, Hortense refused to allow Ford to live with her. Ford was raised by strangers and extended family and, although she was intelligent, she had a limited education. As a teenager, she was arrested for
vagrancy and sentenced to serve time at Ventura State School for Girls, the same reform school where her mother had been. After this string of failures, Ford is said to have become a worker in the sex trade, as her mother had before her: reportedly, during World War II, she plied her trade as what was known in some circles as a "seagull", or a prostitute who "flocked" in pairs or groups near naval bases. It is supposed that Ford began working near the
Oakland Army Base,
Oakland Naval Supply Depot, and
Alameda Naval Air Station. In 1942, she and other "seagulls" traveled to
Long Beach, California and
San Diego. She was arrested on vice charges in these naval cities and in San Pedro, California. At 22, with her good looks, red hair, and sex appeal, she worked for a time in
San Francisco for a brothel
madam named
Sally Stanford. She soon became involved in gambling and illegal drug circles, cultivating a number of friends who were ex-convicts and known career criminals. She served a five-year sentence for perjury as a false alibi witness for two petty criminals, serving her sentence at the
California Women's State Prison at Tehachapi, California. After her stint in state prison, Ford moved to
Reno, Nevada and then
Tonopah, Nevada. She obtained work in a hospital and as a waitress, but soon got on a bus for
Los Angeles. There, she got a room on Hollywood Boulevard and returned to prostitution. In 1953, she married Henry Graham, who worked as a bartender at one of her frequent haunts. With him she had a third child, named Tommy. ==Murder of Mabel Monohan==