Thomas' forebears, the Parrs of Kendal, were a down-to-earth northern
landed gentry family. They had been, after the Crown, the most influential presence in southern Westmoreland since 1381. His mother and grandmother had been royal ladies-in-waiting, and this enabled Thomas to acquire a polished upbringing at the English court. According to biographer Susan James, the young Thomas most likely studied under Maurice Westbury of
Oxford, learning (among other things) classical Greek and Latin as well as modern languages. Westbury had been installed as a teacher by
Lady Margaret Beaufort at her estate of
Collyweston, Northamptonshire. It was at Collyweston that certain gentlemen, including the son of the
Earl of Westmoreland, not only received an education but also acquired political connections that would prove useful in their future careers. Thomas' father, the first Baron Parr of Kendal, had once been Lady Margaret Beaufort's revisionary heir to her substantial lands in Westmoreland, known as the Richmond fee. Thomas's mother's family by her second marriage to
Sir Nicholas Vaux (later 1st Baron Vaux of Harrowden) were also close to Margaret, enjoying a long-term relationship with her. Sir
Thomas More's first wife, Jane, was a niece of Parr by marriage, thereby making More a kinsman of his. Parr was fond of More – the future but ill-fated
Lord Chancellor of the kingdom – and respected his intellect. He was also an advocate of the teachings of his erudite cousin, Sir
Cuthbert Tunstall. These teachings embraced the discipline of mathematics, which Thomas' daughter
Catherine put to good use in her later capacity as the lady of a succession of important households. Under the rule of King
Henry VIII, the Parr family flourished. Their influence, income, and titles increased as Thomas' career advanced. He became a Master of the Wards and was appointed Master of the Guards and
Comptroller to the King. He was knighted and made
High Sheriff of Northamptonshire in 1509, and of
Lincolnshire in 1510. His wife, Maud, became a lady-in-waiting to Queen
Catherine of Aragon. Shortly before the birth of their first surviving child,
Catherine, the couple had bought a house in
Blackfriars, London. Sir Thomas was popular with Henry and, as we have seen, served at court with Sir Thomas More. Although rich in land and money, Sir Thomas never attained the aristocratic title of baron. He did, however, hold messuages, lands, woods, and rents in Parr, Wigan, and Sutton, as well as the manor of
Thurnham. ==Marriage and issue==