Thomas Ruffin Gray was born in 1800 in
Southampton County, Virginia. He was the youngest of six children of Anne (
née Cocke) Brewer Gray and Thomas Gray, a slaveholder,
planter, and horse breeder. Gray inherited his first enslaved person, Hertwell, from his maternal grandfather when he was seven years old. Several years later, Gray had constructed a house on the property, increasing its value to about $500. Gray became a
justice of the peace and served as a magistrate in Southampton County in 1828. By mid-September, he had composed a list of forty participants of the rebellion. He also left one-third of his estate to his granddaughter, Ellen Douglas Gray, the only child of Mary and Thomas Ruffin Gray. However, according to Anthony E. Kaye and
Gregory P. Downs, Gray never took the post. His work as a consul in Cuba was connected to a scandal, although Gray himself was not faulted. Later, Gray worked as a lawyer in and around
Norfolk, Virginia. Gray died from
bilious fever in
Portsmouth, Virginia, on August 23, 1845, at the age of 45 years. ==
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