Book His major work, the autobiographical
Holding the Man (1995), is the story of his 15-year relationship with John Caleo. They met as students at Xavier College; Caleo was captain of the Australian Rules Football team and Conigrave wanted to be an actor. Conigrave finished the book shortly before dying of an
AIDS-related illness. The book was published by
Penguin Books in Australia in February 1995, and also in Spain and North America. It won the 1995
United Nations Award for Non-Fiction.
Play Holding the Man has been adapted into a multi-award-winning play by
Tommy Murphy. The premiere production was directed by
David Berthold at Griffin Theatre Company. It later played a return season at Griffin, February – March 2007, where it also sold out, before transferring to the
Sydney Opera House for a third sell-out season, 9–26 May 2007.
Company B at the
Belvoir St Theatre hosted a fourth season 22 September – 4 November 2007. A fifth season played at the
Brisbane Powerhouse in early March 2008, with a sixth following as part of
Melbourne Theatre Company's 2008 season, 19 March – 26 April 2008. In 2010 it played in London's
Trafalgar Studios. There have also been productions in San Francisco, Auckland, New Zealand, and more recently a 2014 production in Los Angeles directed by
Larry Moss and featuring Nate Jones,
Adam J. Yeend,
Cameron Daddo and
Roxane Wilson, as well as a successful run in the summer of 2018 at Chicago's Pride Films and Plays.
Film On 27 August 2015
a film version of Holding the Man opened in cinemas across Australia. The film is directed by
Neil Armfield and features
Ryan Corr (Tim) and
Craig Stott (John). A documentary based on the lives of Tim Conigrave and John Caleo,
Remembering the Man, premiered at the
Adelaide Film Festival on Sunday 18 October 2015. ArtsHub applauded the film as "powerful and engaging; a fitting tribute to Tim Conigrave, the author of an ur-text of the AIDS pandemic, and his husband, John Caleo."
The Guardian said "this film goes straight (so to speak) to the gay pool room" when it placed the
Remembering the Man on its list of Australia's 10 best LGBT films.
FilmInk called the film a "Beautifully crafted documentary" and noted that "Despite the tragedy that is at the heart of this documentary, it, like
Holding The Man, is a peculiarly uplifting and hopeful film. Operatic even. Tim would have liked that."
Remembering the Man won the Audience Awards for best documentary at the
Adelaide Film Festival 2015, Sydney's
Mardi Gras Film Festival 2016 and the
Melbourne Queer Film Festival 2016. The film also won the David McCarthy Award for best documentary at the
Melbourne Queer Film Festival 2016, and the award for Best Documentary (Biography) at the 2015
ATOM Awards. The documentary's directors, Nickolas Bird and Eleanor Sharpe, were nominated for best direction of a feature documentary at the 2016 Australian Director's Guild Awards. ==Theatre credits==