While serving, at first Mitford chose to serve in Italy and North Africa, and then in
Burma, since he did not want to fight against Germany. Mitford was killed on 30 March 1945 in Burma, while serving with the
Devonshire Regiment. He is buried at
Taukkyan War Cemetery. His sister
Diana, Lady Mosley, wrote: "his loss was something from which I never recovered for the rest of my life". His father, Lord Redesdale, erected a memorial tablet inside St Mary's Church,
Swinbrook, near their home, Swinbrook House.
The 2nd Baron Redesdale,
Lady Mosley,
Nancy Mitford, and
Unity Mitford are buried in the churchyard, while
Pamela Mitford is buried in the northwest of the tower. Another tablet to the memory of Tom Mitford is inside Holy Trinity Church, Horsley, just south of
Rochester, Northumberland, near their estate in Northumberland. ==Personal life==