In 1997, It was awarded a
GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Made for TV Movie.
People Magazine observed that "Redgrave could have played the part as a morally righteous monster, but she creates something more complex: a woman whose faith in maternal instinct causes her to harm her own child." Film critic
John O'Connor thought the movie "comes down quite forcibly on the side of the mother but without turning the grandmother into an ogre." He also praised the "incredibly good performances" of Bertinelli and Redgrave, opining that Bertinelli's "sitcom past has consistently led to an underestimation of her subsequent performances", and Redgrave "accomplishes the extraordinary feat of making a rather dreadful woman seem almost sympathetic." Television critic
Tom Shales wrote that Bertinelli's portrayal of Bottoms is "an unimpeachable performance", while "Redgrave searches for the humanity in the monster she portrays and seems to find it." He notes that the movie "has an accurate and therefore unhappy ending, but that's how life is sometimes: Love doesn't always win out over hate." Robert Koehler wrote in the
Los Angeles Times that "in what was meant to be a blow for lesbian motherhood, the movie is skittish of revealing any more than a light kiss between the two women, so the filmmakers weakly try to compensate for their lack of spine by piling on the rants from moralist types and other angry heterosexuals just to get the message home." ==See also==