Early life She was an orphan under the guardianship of Abul Darda. As a child, she used to sit with male scholars in the
mosque, praying in men's rows and studying
Quran with them. She remarked “I’ve tried to worship Allah in every way, but I’ve never found a better one than sitting around debating with other scholars.”
Teaching Besides holding her classes in the mosques of Damascus and Jerusalem she has been teaching in her house. As a teacher Umm al-Darda entered the men's section of the mosque (under any other circumstances a forbidden place for women). She enjoyed having both female and male students. Even the caliph 'Abd al-Malik ibn Marwan must be noted as one of her classes often participant. Being passionately devoted to teaching, Umm al-Darda has been teaching a large number of students. One day one student asked her about having many students:
Have we wearied you? On that she answered
You (pl.) weary me? I have sought worship in everything. I did not find anything more relieving to me than sitting with scholars and exchanging knowledge with them. Umm al-Darda has shown the piety, modesty and unpretentiousness both in her daily life and teaching asking no fee for delivering knowledge and living on the basis of charitable gifts.
Views She issued a
fatwa, which is still used today, allowing women to pray in the same sitting position (
tashahhud) as men.
Ahmad ibn Hanbal related from Zayd ibn Aslam that he said:Abd al-Malik used to send an invitation to Umm Darda and she would spend as her guest, and he would ask her questions about the Prophet peace be upon him. He said, 'He arose one night and called his maid servant but she came slowly and he cursed her, so she said, "Do not curse, for indeed Abud-Darda related to me that he heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him say, "Those who curse will not be witnesses or interceders on the
Day of Judgement." She was regarded by Ibrahim ibn Abi Ablah as a pious and modest woman. In Ibn 'Asakir 's Ta'rikh madinat Dimashq, Tarajim al-nisa is written that:
I saw Umm al-Darda in Jerusalim sitting among poor women. A man came and distributed some money among them. He gave Umm al-Darda a fals (a copper). She said to her servant: Buy camel meat with it. Is not that money sadaqah? Umm al-Darda said: it came to us unasked. ==Legacy==