She was born in
Medina shortly after her father's death. While declaring his will, he informed his daughter
Aisha that some palm trees that he had given her, should then be given as inheritance to her two brothers and two sisters. She readily accepted her father's wishes but asked to which other sister he was referring besides
Asma. He told her that Habiba was pregnant and that he believed it was going to be a girl. After Umm Kulthum was born, she was raised under the supervision of her sister Aisha "with kindness and gentleness". When she became old enough for marriage,
caliph Umar asked for Umm Kulthum's hand, but Aisha refused consent. Her emissary explained to the Caliph: "You are rough and ready. How will it be with Umm Kulthum if she disobeys you and you beat her? You will have taken Abu Bakr's place in a way that does not suit you." Umm Kulthum was eventually married to her father's cousin and close associate
Talha, who was over forty years older than her. From the marriage she had two sons and one daughter, named respectively: Zakariyya, Yusuf (who died in infancy) and
'Aisha. Talha was then killed during the
Battle of the Camel in 656. Umm Kulthum then accompanied Aisha on a pilgrimage to
Mecca while she was still in her waiting period. So the foster-relationship was therefore incomplete, and Salim did not become eligible to see Aisha unveiled. ==Legacy==