Valerie Saiving Goldstein was born in 1921, and received her BA from
Bates College,
Maine, United States in 1943, studying both theology and psychology. Her
University of Chicago Divinity School PhD thesis,
The Concepts of Individuality in Whitehead’s Metaphysics, was published in 1966. She was co-founder of the Department of Religious Studies and of the Women's Studies programme at
Hobart and William Smith Colleges,
Geneva, New York State, where she taught from 1959 to 1987. She died in 1992. In 1960, she published an 18-page article in
The Journal of Religion, entitled
The Human Situation: A Feminine View. She critiqued contemporary theology largely by means of psychological observations, noting that, whereas little girls learn that they will grow up — just by waiting — to be women, boys on the other hand learn that to be men they must "do something about it. Mere waiting is not enough; to be a man, a boy must prove himself and go on proving himself." The article had substantial influence on subsequent feminist theologians.
Mary Daly, for example, cited her in her work
The Church and the Second Sex, while
Judith Plaskow both published a dissertation on Saiving's essay (entitled ''Sex, Sin and Grace: Women's Experience and the Theologies of
Reinhold Niebuhr and
Paul Tillich) and reproduced the 1960 article in her 1979 anthology Womanspirit Rising: A Feminist Reader in Religion''. ==The Human Situation: A Feminine View==