Esther Vanhomrigh was the daughter of
Bartholomew Van Homrigh, a merchant of
Amsterdam and afterwards of
Dublin, who was appointed
commissary of the stores by
William III of England upon his expedition into Ireland: he was
Lord Mayor of Dublin from 1697 16988. Her mother, also named Esther, was the daughter of John Stone, an Irish commissioner of revenue. She grew up at
Celbridge Abbey in
County Kildare. Her father died in 1703, and his widow moved her family to London in 1707. Vanhomrigh became acquainted with Jonathan Swift in December of that year at
Dunstable, while her family was traveling to London. She was 22 years younger than Swift. Vanhomrigh was said "not to be a beauty", though no contemporary portrait of her exists (the 1868 Millais portrait is a work of artistic imagination). Swift later served as her
tutor. After her mother died in 1714, Vanhomrigh followed Swift to Ireland, and returned to Celbridge Abbey. Their relationship was fraught. It was broken up after 17 years by Swift's relationship with another woman,
Esther Johnson, whom he called "Stella", in 1723. Swift had known Johnson since about 1690, when she was a little girl in the household of his employer,
Sir William Temple; their relationship was intense and it is possible that they had secretly married in 1716. Vanhomrigh is thought to have asked Swift not to see Stella again, and he apparently refused, thus putting an end to their relationship. Vanhomrigh died on 2 June 1723, probably from
tuberculosis contracted from nursing her sister Mary, who had died of the same disease in 1720, as had their mother; some accused Swift of inadvertently causing her death. Vanhomrigh's father had left her well provided for, but she was burdened by debts accumulated by her mother and her brother Bartholomew. In her will, Vanhomrigh named the barrister
Robert Marshall and
George Berkeley, the celebrated
philosopher and future
Bishop of Cloyne,
executors and joint residuary
legatees of her estate, although she knew neither man well. Due to the debts, a protracted
lawsuit ensued and a large part of the estate went to legal costs. It was widely reported that she had made it a condition of the inheritance that her executors publish all her correspondence with Swift, but in fact, no such stipulation seems to have been made. Swift, whose letters to her were published after her death, is not mentioned in her will. ==Legacy==