In January 2023, it was reported that
ITV were set to commission a new dating series that was teased as a version of "
Love Island for "mid-life single parents". The series was given the working title
The Romance Retreat and
Davina McCall was announced to be presenting the series in March 2023. Following the announcement of her appointment as presenter, McCall said she had "manifested" the show into existence and had "begged [television] bosses" to give her the role of presenter, adding that she made it happen and "willed there to be an amazing new dating programme for grown-ups." She described the cast as "people who have lived a life, been through experiences [...] They've got luggage but they deserve love." In June 2023, the series was confirmed to be titled
My Mum, Your Dad. The series format was created by father and daughter
Greg and Haley Daniels and a version of the show originally aired in the United States on
HBO Max in January 2022, with France and Germany also producing their own versions. The British version of the show is produced by
Lifted Entertainment. Paul Mortimer, director of Reality and Acquisitions, said of the show's commissioning: "
My Mum, Your Dad" is set to be a relationship show with a difference, as [they] follow the emotional and inspiring journeys of single parents looking to find love once more." The first trailer for the series aired on 31 July 2023 during the final of the
tenth series of
Love Island. The series was shelved by ITV in January 2025, but could potentially return in the future.
Location The retreat is Viola House in the
West Sussex village of
Stedham. It is set on 45-acres within the
South Downs National Park and has a reception hall and 5 reception rooms, a kitchen and secondary kitchen, a utility room, a cellar, a leisure complex that houses an indoor swimming pool, a master suite with a dressing room and bathroom, 8 further bedrooms with 6 further bath or shower rooms—2 of which are en-suite, garaging, workshop and equestrian facilities, and a tennis court.
Music One of the most popular elements of
My Mum, Your Dad is the music played within it. Series 1 tracks, included: "
Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic" by
The Police, "
Higher Love" by
Steve Winwood, "
Hot Stuff" by
Donna Summer, "
How Will I Know" by
Whitney Houston, "
Keep On Loving You" by
REO Speedwagon, and "
You Make My Dreams" by
Hall & Oates. Series 2 tunes, included: "
A Good Heart" by
Feargal Sharkey, "
Here I Go Again" by
Whitesnake, "
I Drove All Night" by
Cyndi Lauper, "
Invisible Touch" by
Genesis, "
The Whole of the Moon" by
The Waterboys, and "
You're the Voice" by
John Farnham. ==Series overview==