In all cultures, consensual sexual intercourse is acceptable within marriage. In some cultures sexual intercourse outside marriage is controversial, if not totally unacceptable, or even illegal. In some countries, such as Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iran, Maldives, Morocco, Oman, Mauritania, United Arab Emirates, Sudan, Yemen, any form of sexual activity outside marriage is illegal. As the philosopher
Michel Foucault has noted, such societies often create spaces or heterotopias outside themselves where sex outside marriage can be practiced. According to his theory, this was the reason for the often unusual sexual ethics displayed by persons living in brothels, asylums, on board ships, or in prisons. Sexual expression was freed of social controls in such places whereas, within society, sexuality has been controlled through the institution of marriage which socially sanctions the sex act. Many different types of marriage exist, but in most cultures that practice marriage, extramarital sex without the approval of the partner is often considered to be unethical. There are a number of complex issues that fall under the category of marriage. When one member of a marital union has sexual intercourse with another person without the consent of their spouse, it may be considered to be
infidelity. In some cultures, this act may be considered ethical if the spouse consents, or acceptable as long as the partner is not married while other cultures might view any sexual intercourse outside marriage as unethical, with or without consent. Furthermore, the institution of marriage brings up the issue of premarital sex wherein people who may choose to at some point in their lives marry, engage in sexual activity with partners who they may or may not marry. Various cultures have different attitudes about the ethics of such behavior, some condemning it while others view it to be normal and acceptable.
Premarital sex There are persons, groups and cultures that consider
premarital sex to be immoral, or even sinful, and refer to such behaviour as
fornication. In recent decades, premarital sex has increasingly been regarded as less socially or morally objectionable, especially within Western cultures.
Extramarital sex Similarly, but perhaps more than sex by unmarried persons,
extramarital sex may be regarded as immoral or sinful by some, and referred to as
adultery,
infidelity or "cheating", while some cultures, groups or individuals regard extramarital sex as acceptable.
Non-monogamy Monogamy, especially in Christian societies, is widely regarded as a norm, and
polygamy is deprecated. Even within polygamous societies,
polyandry is regarded as unacceptable. Today, the practice, especially in Western cultures, of
polyamory or
open marriage raises ethical or moral issues. ==Individuals and societies==