Because the family spent much of his childhood travelling round Europe, most of his education was by private tutors. He only spent about two years in formal schooling, first at
King's College School in London (then located in
Somerset House) and then, for a few months, at
King's School, Warwick (now Warwick School). Here his time was ended by a bronchial disease of the kind that was to plague him throughout his long life. His father considered his ill-health as a good reason for another European tour. In 1852, he was admitted to
Cambridge University, earning the degrees of Bachelor of Arts in 1857, then
Master of Arts (an upgrade, not a new qualification) in 1860 from
Clare College, Cambridge. In September 1853 he informed
Nathaniel Woodard of his desire to be ordained. He taught for only ten days at one of Woodard's boys' boarding schools in Sussex,
Lancing College, but then moved to another,
Hurstpierpoint College, where he stayed from 1857 to 1864. While there, he was responsible for several subjects, especially languages and science, and he also designed the ironwork of the bookcases in the boys' library, as well as painting the window jambs with scenes from the
Canterbury Tales and
The Faerie Queene. He took
holy orders in 1864, and at age 30, became the
curate at
Horbury Bridge,
West Riding of Yorkshire. It was while acting as a curate that he met Grace Taylor, the daughter of a mill hand, then aged fourteen. In the next few years they fell in love. His vicar, John Sharp, arranged for Grace to live for two years with relatives in
York to learn middle-class manners. Gould later became a friend of
George Bernard Shaw, and this story is thought to be part inspiration for Shaw's play
Pygmalion. Baring-Gould, meanwhile, relocated to become
perpetual curate at Dalton, near
Thirsk. He and Grace were married in 1868 at
Wakefield. Their marriage lasted until her death 48 years later, and the couple had 15 children, all but one of whom lived to adulthood. When he buried his wife in 1916, he had carved on her tombstone the
Latin motto ('Half My Soul'). Baring-Gould became the
rector of
East Mersea in Essex in 1871 and spent ten years there. In 1872, his father died and he inherited the family estates of
Lewtrenchard in Devon, which included the gift of the living of Lew Trenchard parish. When the living became vacant in 1881, he was able to appoint himself to it, becoming
parson as well as
squire. He did a great deal of work restoring
St Peter's Church, Lewtrenchard, and (from 1883 to 1914) thoroughly remodelled his home, Lew Trenchard Manor. ==Folk songs==