Winifred Selina ("Bena") Sturt was the second daughter of
Henry Gerard Sturt, 1st Baron Alington, of Crichel, Dorset, and his first wife Lady Augusta Bingham, the first daughter of
George Charles Bingham, 3rd Earl of Lucan. Henry Gerard Sturt was a racing magnate and close friend of
Edward, Prince of Wales. The Sturt family opposed Winifred's engagement to
Charles Hardinge on account of Winifred and Charles'
consanguinity (they were first cousins), as well as Hardinge's relative indigence, but the couple married on 17 April 1890. The couple had three children: • Lieutenant Honourable Edward Hardinge, DSO (1892–1914), an officer in the
15th Hussars, who died of wounds received during
WWI. •
Alexander Hardinge (1894–1960), who succeeded his father as Lord Hardinge of Penshurst • Honourable Diamond Evelyn Violet Hardinge (1900–1927) ==Court==