Crapsey was "raised in a liberal environment that encouraged great expectations for women." After leaving the Rochester public schools, Adelaide with her sister Emily entered
Kemper Hall in 1893. Kemper Hall was an Episcopalian woman's college preparatory school in
Kenosha, Wisconsin. At
Kemper Hall, she took the college preparatory courses which included
Latin and
French. She was the editor of the school magazine and she played and
refereed basketball. She graduated in 1897 as the valedictorian for her class. Crapsey matriculated in
Vassar College in
Poughkeepsie, New York, in 1897. She had "a very active four years" in Vassar. For three years she was class poet. She was the editor-in-chief of the
Vassarion and managed the basketball team. She was a member of the debating club and was elected to
Phi Beta Kappa. She played the role of Lucy the maid in the play
The Rivals. Crapsey roomed with
Jean Webster who continued to be "her best friend and literary comrade" for the rest of her life. Two of Adelaide's sisters died while she was in college. Ruth died in 1898 of
undulant fever at the age of eleven. Emily, with whom Adelaide was closest, died in 1901 of appendicitis at the age of twenty-four. Crapsey planned a career in teaching after graduating from Vassar in 1901. However, before beginning work, she took a year off both "to regain her strength" and "to recover from the shock" of Emily's death." One afternoon, when Crapsey and her mother were in the rectory and her father was out, members of the Committee of Investigation came to ask her father some questions. Her mother was "too nervous and worn out from the months in the public eye," so Crapsey offered to serve the men tea. She "spiked the tea with rum," which probably contributed to their good mood when they left. Crapsey's courage in the face of the enemy may have inspired her poem about the biblical
Judith: :::::Israel! :::::Wake! Be gay! :::::Thine enemy is brought low— :::::Thy foe slain—by the hand, by the hand :::::Of a woman! In 1906, the Diocese presented charges of heresy against Crapsey's father, and an Ecclesiastical Court was established and trial was set to be held in
Batavia, New York. On April 18, 1906, she went with her father and his chief counsel to
Batavia. At the end of the trial, her father was found guilty of heresy. After the trial, Adelaide remained with her family to give them her "support, comfort, and good humor." However, her "literary and academic future" had been suspended for eighteen months. She needed a job near enough to
Rochester to be "relatively accessible to her family." She found such a job, teaching history and literature at Miss Low's School in
Stamford, Connecticut.
Stamford was also only a short train ride from
New York City where her father's Court of Appeal was held. The appeal was denied on November 20, 1906. Crapsey taught at Miss Low's for the academic years 1906-1907 and 1907-1908. With her father's appeal having been denied, he was no longer a minister in the
Episcopal Church. He was given until the end of December 1906 to vacate the
St. Andrew's rectory. Crapsey was not happy teaching at Miss Low's school. The "atmosphere was oppressive" to her; her horizons had expanded. Nevertheless, her teaching was described as "thrilling." Her students "seemed to gravitate" to her classes. In 1907, Crapsey's father was a delegate to the
International Peace Conference at
the Hague, and she accompanied him. During the conference, Adelaide, who was fluent in
French, was in demand as a
translator. The conference was conducted in French and the newspapers were printed in French, a language which few Americans knew. The Crapseys left the conference early "disillusioned and disappointed." After the conference, Adelaide and her father took a walking tour of Wales. Dr. Crapsey was a tireless walker, but Adelaide suffered
fatigue. The cause of her fatigue was not diagnosed until 1911 when she was diagnosed with
tuberculous meningitis. After they returned from Europe at the end of the summer of 1907, Adelaide and her father joined the family in their "summer cottage." This gave her a month before she returned to her teaching job at Miss Low's School in Stamford. Crapsey used this time to recuperate and to ponder her future possibilities. As the school year progressed, she became physically weaker. She lacked the energy for activities other than those required of her. Crapsey's weakness probably derived from
tuberculosis, although it had not yet been diagnosed. She was so weak that, after a week's teaching, she often spent her weekends in bed to recuperate. but she was not interested in learning the theories of others. ==Further study in Europe==