. In the summer of 1846, she met her second cousin,
Grand Duke Konstantin Nikolayevich of Russia when he visited
Altenburg. He was the second son of
Nicholas I, Emperor of Russia, and
Empress Alexandra Feodorovna, née Princess Charlotte of Prussia. Konstantin stayed for a few days at Alexandra's father's castle. His visit there had been arranged by Alexandra's aunt,
Grand Duchess Elena Pavlovna, who had been born Princess Charlotte of Württemberg. Elena and Alexandra's mother were both descended from
Frederick II Eugene, Duke of Württemberg. Elena was married to
Grand Duke Michael Pavlovich, the younger brother of Tsar Nicholas I. Elena Pavlovna was therefore Konstantin's aunt by marriage and Alexandra's aunt by birth. Elena was a strong influence over Konstantin, who admired her intellect and progressive views. She had literary interests and was musical, founding the
St Petersburg Conservatoire, and the young Konstantin often spent time at Elena's home and salon in
St Petersburg. Konstantin was intellectual and liberal, whereas Alexandra was conservative and rather high spirited. Although their temperaments differed, they both shared an interest in music, and enjoyed playing duets at the piano. Konstantin was captivated by Alexandra's youthful beauty: she being tall, slender and attractive. He quickly became besotted, and was eager to marry her "I don't know what is happening to me. It is as if I am a completely new person. Just one thought moves me, just one image fills my eyes: forever and only she, my angel, my universe. I really do think I’m in love. However, what can it mean? I've only know her just a few hours and I'm already up to my ears in Passion". She was only 16 and Konstantin 19; they were engaged but had to wait two more years before they could finally marry. Alexandra arrived in Russia on 12 October 1847, and was greeted by much fanfare and popular celebration, with jubilant crowds lining the streets and balconies. It was said that Alexandra looked so much like her fiancé's sister, the
Grand Duchess Alexandra Nikolayevna, who died in childbirth, that her prospective mother-in-law burst into tears at their first meeting. In February 1848, Alexandra converted to Russian Orthodoxy, taking the name of Grand Duchess Alexandra Iosifovna, which reflected her father's name
Joseph (unlike many princesses she took a patronymic, choosing to reflect her parentage rather than the usual religious or dynastic associations which was also possible because Iosif was a common name in Russia). Alexandra and Konstantin were married in the
Winter Palace in
St Petersburg, on 11 September 1848. Konstantin received the
Marble Palace in St Petersburg as a wedding gift from his parents.
Strelna on the Gulf of Finland, which Konstantin inherited when aged four, was the wedded couple's country retreat. The lively Grand Duchess Alexandra Iosifovna took a particular interest in the grounds at Strelna, establishing a free school of gardening, where she taught classes herself. There were also educational toys for the children: a wooden mast and trampoline for gymnastics, and the transplanted cabin of one of Konstantin's frigates. A year after their marriage, Konstantin inherited the
Pavlovsk Palace, situated 19 miles to the south of St Petersburg, from his uncle Grand Duke Michael Pavlovich. The public was admitted to the fine park in its grounds. The Grand-Ducal family supported an impressive concert hall situated at Pavlovsk station, which proved popular with the middle classes, and attracted names such as
Johann Strauss II,
Franz Liszt, and
Hector Berlioz. Alexandra and Konstantin later acquired the palace of
Oreanda in Crimea, which had originally been built by
Tsarina Alexandra Feodorovna and left to her second son for his retirement. Konstantin and Alexandra had 6 children: •
Nikolai Konstantinovich (14 February 1850 – 26 January 1918); married 1882, Nadejda Alexandrovna von Dreyer. •
Olga Konstantinovna, Queen of the Hellenes ( 1851 – 18 June 1926); married 1867,
George I of Greece and is an ancestor of both
Felipe VI of Spain and
Charles III of the United Kingdom •
Vera Konstantinovna (16 February 1854 – 11 April 1912); married 1874,
Duke Eugen of Württemberg. •
Konstantin Konstantinovich (22 August 1858 – 15 June 1915); married 1884,
Princess Elisabeth of Saxe-Altenburg. •
Dmitry Konstantinovich (13 June 1860 – 28 January 1919); died unmarried. •
Vyacheslav Konstantinovich (13 July 1862 – 27 February 1879); died unmarried. Their daughter,
Vera, suffered from a "nervous condition" which resulted in Alexandra and Konstantin sending her to her aunt,
Grand Duchess Olga in
Württemberg in December 1863. ==Family crisis==