Parisse was born in
Anchorage, Alaska, the daughter of Annette, a teacher, and Louis G. Cancelmi, a senior executive with
Alaska Airlines. She has
Italian,
Slovak and
Syrian ancestry. Her brother
Louis is also an actor. Louis is married to Elisabeth Waterston, a daughter of
Law & Order veteran and Parisse's co-star
Sam Waterston. Parisse grew up in
Mercer Island, Washington, Parisse moved to
New York City when she was 18 to attend
Fordham University, where she majored in theater and appeared in numerous productions, including
Medea and
Antigone, both of which featured her as the lead. ==Career==