Jane and Elizabeth are the eldest and are appreciated by their father. Mary displays intellectual and musical pretensions. The two youngest daughters, Catherine (Kitty) and Lydia, are younger girls portrayed with characteristics considered to be immature.
Jane Bennet Jane Bingley (née Bennet) is the eldest Bennet sister, being 22 years old at the beginning of the novel and 23 by the end. Similarly to her immediate younger sister, Elizabeth, Jane is favoured by her father due to her steady, genteel disposition. Like each of her sisters, Jane had an allowance/pin money of £40 per annum before her marriage to Charles Bingley. She is considered the most beautiful young lady in the neighbourhood. Jane's character contrasts with Elizabeth's as being sweeter, shyer, and equally sensible, but not as clever. Her most notable trait is her desire to see only the good in others. As
Anna Quindlen wrote, Jane is "sugar to Elizabeth's lemonade". She is favoured by her mother solely because of her external beauty. If Jane has taken anything after her mother, it is a certain inflexibility of thought; she is unwilling to think ill of others (barring strong evidence), whereas her mother will think ill of anyone on little-to-no evidence at all. Jane falls in love with Mr Bingley, a rich young man who has recently leased Netherfield Park, a neighbouring estate. "'He is just what a young man ought to be,' said [Jane], 'sensible, good humoured, lively; and I never saw such happy manners! – so much ease, with such perfect good breeding.'" Their love is initially thwarted by Bingley's friend, Mr Darcy, and his sister Caroline Bingley, who are each concerned by Jane's low connections. They have plans to connect Mr Bingley with Miss Darcy, Mr Darcy's younger sister. Mr Darcy, aided by Elizabeth, eventually sees the error in his ways and helps bring Jane and Mr Bingley back together. Although Jane is frequently described as gentle and amiable, she does not always show explicit regard for Mr Bingley. Her sweetness and tendency to see the best in everyone mean that, at times, both Bingley and Mr Darcy fail to perceive the depth of her affection. Charlotte Lucas even advises Elizabeth that Jane should more clearly emphasize her regard for Bingley. It is only Elizabeth, who shares a close and intuitive understanding with her sister, who fully perceives the intensity of Jane's love. This subtlety in expressing emotion underscores Jane's reserved and sincere nature. As described in volume 3, chapter 19 of the novel, after their marriage, the couple manages to live at Netherfield for a year before life in Meryton (being imposed upon by Mrs Bennet and Mrs Phillips) become too much for their good tempers, leading them to give up the lease on the estate and establish themselves elsewhere. Following this, "Mr. Bingley bought an estate in a neighbouring county to
Derbyshire, and Jane and Elizabeth, in addition to every source of happiness, were within thirty-miles of each other."
Elizabeth Bennet Elizabeth Darcy (née Bennet) is the second of the Bennet daughters, being 20 years old at the beginning of the novel and 21 by the end. Like each of her sisters, Elizabeth has an allowance/pin money of £40 per annum. As the plot begins, her closest relationships are with her father (as his favourite daughter), her sister Jane, her Aunt Gardiner, and her best friend Charlotte Lucas. However, she is the least favourite of her mother, Mrs Bennet, because of her resistance to her mother's plans. As the story progresses, so does her relationship with Mr Darcy. The course of Elizabeth and Mr Darcy's relationship is ultimately decided when Darcy overcomes his pride, and Elizabeth overcomes her prejudice, leading them each to acknowledge their love for each other.
Mary Bennet Mary Bennet is the middle sister, being around 18 years old at the beginning of the novel and 19 by the end. Like her two younger sisters, Kitty and Lydia, she is seen as "silly" by Mr Bennet, and not pretty like her sisters or "good-humoured" by Mrs Bennet. Socially inept, Mary mostly reads, plays music and sings, rather than actually joining in most family activities, and is more in the habit of moralising
at people than in conversing
with them, yet, hypocritically, she is often impatient to display her "accomplishments" and is rather vain about them. She feels that reading books makes her an authority on those subjects. While she has inherited her father's fondness for books, she has also inherited her mother's lack of self-awareness and discernment; only able to pick up on the most superficial meanings of what she reads, as well as a tendency to repeat phrases from her books in place of original conversation. Mary recites awkward interpretations of what are supposed to be profound observations from her books. When Mr Collins is refused by Elizabeth, Mrs Bennet hopes Mary may be convinced to accept him, and Mary herself hoped that Mr Collins would turn his affections towards her. Like each of her sisters, Mary had an allowance of £40 per annum. Mary does not appear often in the novel. However, it is said in volume 3, chapter 19, that with Jane, Elizabeth, and Lydia married and moved out of Longbourn, and Kitty living primarily with Jane and Elizabeth, Mary received more attention, and was made to socialise more with people during company. According to
James Edward Austen-Leigh's
A Memoir of Jane Austen, Mary marries "one of her Uncle Philips' clerks, and was content to be considered a star in the society of Meryton".
Catherine "Kitty" Bennet Catherine Bennet, called "Kitty", is Mr and Mrs Bennet's fourth daughter, being 17 years old at the beginning of the novel and 18 by the end. Kitty is described as "weak-spirited", "irritable", and "ignorant, idle and vain". Although she is older than Lydia by almost two years, Kitty is almost completely under her younger sister's influence. She does not recognise the consequences of keeping Lydia's plot to elope a secret from her family. Although Kitty is portrayed as having no different thoughts from Lydia, Lydia takes her for granted, so Kitty holds some resentment towards her, such as when Lydia is invited to Brighton by the newly married Mrs Forster, Kitty is portrayed as being envious of Lydia, declaring that, as the older sister by two years, she had just as much right to be invited as Lydia. Like each of her sisters, Kitty has an allowance/pin money of £40 per annum. It is mentioned in volume 2, chapter 37, that whilst her oldest sisters, Jane and Elizabeth, have tried over the years (prior to the events of
Pride and Prejudice) to educate Kitty and Lydia in order to stop their wild and ill-bred behaviours, their efforts were seen as 'interfering' by Kitty and Lydia, were undermined by their mother, and were unsupported by their father. In volume 3, chapter 19, Kitty has improved while spending time with Elizabeth and Jane, and without Lydia's negative influence. According to
A Memoir of Jane Austen, "Kitty Bennet was satisfactorily married to a clergyman near Pemberley", possibly a parish under the patronage of the Darcy family.
Lydia Bennet . '
Lydia Wickham (née
Bennet)' is the youngest Bennet sister, being 15 years old at the beginning of the novel and 16 years old by the end. In personality, Lydia is a younger version of her mother, as well as "a favourite with her mother, whose affection had
brought her into public at an early age." She is called "silly & ignorant", "vain, ignorant, idle, and absolutely uncontrolled", and "untamed, unabashed, wild, noisy, and fearless", with an exaggerated estimation of her own self-importance, which her mother views as "cheerfulness", "jolliness", and "
flirtatiousness". Like her mother, Lydia is incapable of keeping secrets and respecting confidences. Lydia lives in the moment, thinking only of herself and things that relate to her own enjoyments (clothes, parties, flirting with handsome men in regimental uniforms, being the envy of others), and is wrapped up in herself, and sparing no thought for consequences to herself or others, especially when it gets in the way of her own enjoyment. Her behaviour leads to her running off to London with
George Wickham, who has no intention of marrying her: "But [Darcy] found Lydia absolutely resolved on remaining where she was. She cared for none of her friends; she wanted no help of [Darcy's]; she would not hear of leaving Wickham. She was sure they should be married some time or other, and it did not much signify when. Since such were her feelings, it only remained, [Darcy] thought, to secure and expedite a marriage". She dominates her older sister Kitty, and has resisted attempts by her elder sisters Jane and Elizabeth to correct her behaviour. She is supported by Mrs Bennet, who indulges all of her "silly", forward and selfish behaviour, and has for years filled Lydia's head with tales of lace, bonnets, and high fashions: [Lydia] is very young; she has never been taught to think on serious subjects; and for the last half-year, nay, for a twelvemonth, she has been given up to nothing but amusement and vanity. She has been allowed to dispose of her time in the most idle and frivolous manner, and to adopt any opinions that came in her way. Since the ----shire were first quartered in Meryton, nothing but love, flirtation, and officers have been in her head. She has been doing every thing in her power, by thinking and talking on the subject, to give greater – what shall I call it? – susceptibility to her feelings, which are naturally lively enough. Lydia is careless with her money, always spending more than her pin money allows, receiving more money from her mother, and going to her sisters to borrow money, whom she never pays back. Like each of her sisters, Lydia had an allowance/pin money of £40 per annum before her marriage to Wickham, after which she started receiving £100 per annum (for the rest of her father's life). Of the three youngest Bennet sisters, Lydia is mentioned the most. In volume 3, chapter 19, Lydia, now married, is not living the "high life", but did not seem to notice: "It had always been evident to [Elizabeth] that such an income as theirs ... must be insufficient to their support; and whenever they changed their quarters, either Jane or [Elizabeth], were sure to be applied to, for some little assistance towards discharging their bills. Their manner of living ... was unsettled in the extreme. They were always moving from place to place in quest of a cheap situation, and always spending more than they ought. [Wickham]'s affection for [Lydia] soon sunk into indifference: [Lydia's] lasted a little longer; and in spite of her youth and her manners, she retained all the claims to reputation which her marriage had given her." ==Additional==