Murder of Dee Dee Blanchard

Early life and family Dee Dee Blanchard (born Clauddine Pitre on May 3, 1967) was born in Chackbay, Louisiana, United States, and raised in nearby Golden Meadow, Louisiana. She was one of several children born to Claude Anthony Pitre Sr. and Emma Lois Gisclair Pitre. Accounts from family members later described strained relationships within the household and periods of conflict during her upbringing. Some relatives alleged that Blanchard exhibited deceptive or manipulative behaviors from a young age; however, these claims were largely reported retrospectively and are not fully substantiated in contemporaneous records. Her mother died in 1997. Education and early adulthood Public documentation regarding Blanchard’s formal education is limited. She is reported to have attended local schools in Louisiana but did not pursue higher education. In early adulthood, Blanchard worked as a nurse’s aide, including employment alongside Kristy Blanchard and Laura Pitre. This role provided her with familiarity with medical terminology and healthcare environments. During this period, Blanchard reportedly experienced instability in personal relationships and living arrangements, though detailed records are limited. Relationship, marriage, and early family life At age 23, Dee Dee Blanchard met Rod Blanchard, then 17, at a bowling alley bar in Louisiana. The two began a relationship that progressed quickly, and Blanchard became pregnant soon afterward. The couple married on December 27, 1990. Their daughter, Gypsy Rose Blanchard, was born on July 27, 1991, in Louisiana. Following the birth of their daughter, the marriage quickly deteriorated. Rod Blanchard later stated in interviews that he felt he had married “for the wrong reasons” and was not prepared for family life at the time. He and Dee Dee Blanchard separated prior to or shortly after Gypsy Rose’s birth, and the couple later divorced. Transition into later life patterns Following the birth of her daughter, Dee Dee Blanchard increasingly represented Gypsy Rose Blanchard as suffering from multiple serious medical conditions, including reported leukemia, muscular dystrophy, epilepsy, and developmental disabilities. Blanchard sought medical treatment for her daughter from numerous healthcare providers across several states and frequently relocated, resulting in fragmented medical records and repeated diagnostic evaluations. According to law enforcement records and reporting based on court proceedings, many of the medical conditions described by Blanchard were not consistently supported by medical documentation and were later determined by investigators to have been misrepresented or fabricated in the course of the investigation into her death. Evidence presented in court proceedings and reported by reliable sources, including Gypsy Rose Blanchard, indicates that Gypsy became aware over time that she was not as medically impaired as represented. During later testimony, she stated that she sought to escape her mother’s control and ultimately conspired with her boyfriend, Nicholas Godejohn, in the murder. According to the probable cause statement and court findings, Gypsy Rose Blanchard participated in the planning of the killing, including communicating with Godejohn in advance and facilitating the murder. Reports based on the affidavit state that she provided the weapon and hid in another room while the attack was carried out. In sworn testimony during Godejohn’s trial, Gypsy Rose Blanchard stated that she had persuaded him to commit the murder, stating that she “talked him into it.” == Gypsy-Rose Blanchard ==

According to Rod Blanchard, when Gypsy was three months old, Dee Dee became convinced that the infant had sleep apnea and began taking her to receive medical care. Repeated overnight stays with a sleep monitor and other tests found no evidence of the condition. Over time, Dee Dee asserted that Gypsy had a wide range of medical issues, which she attributed to an unspecified chromosomal disorder. Additionally, Gypsy's former pediatrician, Dr. Rob Steel, confirmed in an interview that Gypsy had strabismus as an infant, which required surgery to correct and prevent blindness. In later accounts of her life, including interviews and her memoir, Gypsy Rose Blanchard described aspects of her early childhood and family environment. She alleged that when she was about five years old, her maternal grandfather behaved inappropriately toward her and her mother during bathing. She also recalled that at around seven or eight years old, she was involved in a minor motorcycle accident with him, resulting in a knee abrasion. These claims form part of her personal narrative and have not been independently substantiated in court findings. Blanchard has also described a childhood marked by instability following her parents' separation. She reported that she and her mother, Dee Dee Blanchard, frequently moved residences and relied on assistance from charities. After Hurricane Katrina, they relocated to Missouri, where Dee Dee presented Gypsy as suffering from multiple severe illnesses, while Gypsy herself later stated that she was also involved in helping maintain or reinforce some of those false claims about her medical condition. Medical records and subsequent investigations indicated a pattern in which Dee Dee misrepresented her daughter’s health, leading to unnecessary treatments and interventions. These circumstances have been widely discussed in connection with factitious disorder imposed on another and were a significant element in understanding the background of the case. Gypsy frequently attended Special Olympics events with her parents. She was named the honorary queen of the Krewe of Mid-City, a child-focused Mardi Gras parade in New Orleans. At the event, she described herself as an animal lover with four cats and said her grandfather was her "best friend". Dee Dee sustained a leg injury that Gypsy later recalled resulted from a car accident, requiring a two‑month hospital stay. During this period, Dee Dee and Gypsy lived with Gypsy's maternal grandfather, Claude, for about ten months. In her 2024 book, Gypsy accused Claude of abusing both her and her mother during this time. Around this period, Dee Dee began taking Gypsy to science fiction and fantasy conventions. They sometimes attended in costume, which allowed Gypsy to blend in. Gypsy appears to have stopped attending school after second grade, possibly even earlier. According to relatives, when they confronted her about her treatment of Gypsy and raised concerns about Laura's health, Dee Dee left the household with Gypsy. The family said that Laura's condition improved afterward. ==Move to New Orleans ==

Dee Dee and Gypsy settled in the New Orleans suburb of Slidell, where they lived in public housing. Dee Dee supported herself through child‑support payments from her ex‑husband, Rod, and through public assistance tied to Gypsy's purported medical conditions. She continued taking Gypsy to numerous specialists, primarily at Tulane Medical Center and the Children's Hospital of New Orleans. Some physicians provided treatment based on the conditions Dee Dee reported. After she told doctors that Gypsy experienced seizures every few months, they prescribed anti-seizure medication. During this period, Gypsy underwent surgery, and Dee Dee frequently took her to the emergency room for minor ailments. After Hurricane Katrina devastated the region in August 2005, Dee Dee and Gypsy left their damaged apartment and relocated to a special‑needs shelter in Covington, where they stayed for three months. Dee Dee told officials that Gypsy's medical records and birth certificate had been lost in the flood. A doctor at the shelter, who was originally from the Ozarks, suggested that they relocate to Missouri. The following month, they were airlifted there as part of the resettlement program for people displaced by the hurricane. ==Move to Springfield==

In 2008, Dee Dee and Gypsy moved east to Springfield. Habitat for Humanity built a small house for them on the city's north side, equipped with a wheelchair ramp and hot tub as part of a larger development project. The story of a single mother caring for a severely disabled daughter who had fled Hurricane Katrina drew considerable local media attention. The community frequently offered assistance to the family, and Dee Dee—now identifying as Clauddinnea Blanchard—continued to go by her longtime nickname. In the summer of 2009, Children's Mercy Hospitals and Clinics published a story highlighting a reunion between Dee Dee, Gypsy, and Dr. Robert Beckerman following an appointment at the Comprehensive Sleep Disorders Center. The outpouring of support in Missouri included numerous charitable contributions. While living in Louisiana, the pair had primarily relied on occasional stays at Ronald McDonald Houses during medical appointments; in Missouri, they received free flights to Children's Mercy Hospital in Kansas City, trips to Walt Disney World, and backstage passes to Miranda Lambert concerts through the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Rod Blanchard continued to make monthly child‑support payments of $1,200, sent gifts to Gypsy, and occasionally spoke with her by phone. He later recalled that during one call on Gypsy's eighteenth birthday, Dee Dee told him not to mention her daughter's real age because "she thinks she’s 14". Tubes were implanted in Gypsy's ears to treat her many purported ear infections. She kept another copy with the correct birthdate; Gypsy recalled seeing it during a hospital visit and becoming confused, and Dee Dee told her it was a misprint. In February 2011, at a science‑fiction convention, Gypsy attempted to escape. Her mother found her with a man named Dan, whom she had met online and arranged to meet at the event. Accounts of the incident differ. In one version, attendees who believed Gypsy was 15 and the man was 35 became concerned after finding her in his hotel room. Neighbors later said that Dee Dee produced paperwork with a false birthdate and threatened to contact police, prompting the man to let Gypsy go. In June 2011, Gypsy attempted another escape by shooting her mother ten times with a BB gun, which she initially believed was a real firearm. Dee Dee told others that the injuries resulted from a robbery attempt at a nearby Walmart. Around this time, Gypsy hid from her mother to use the computer. She later said she shared sexually explicit images of herself online because it made her feel better about her appearance. In February 2012, police were called after Dee Dee and Gypsy were caught shoplifting $21.53 worth of arts‑and‑crafts items from a Hobby Lobby. The items had been hidden under Gypsy's legs in the wheelchair. Dee Dee told officers they had just returned from Disney World and planned to make a scrapbook, and that the theft was accidental. Around 2012, Gypsy, who continued using the Internet after Dee Dee went to bed to avoid her supervision, made contact online with Nicholas Godejohn of Big Bend, Wisconsin, whom she said she met on a Christian singles website. and a history of mental illness, sometimes reported as dissociative identity disorder, and has autism spectrum disorder. Gypsy and Godejohn exchanged over 100 videos during their online relationship. In one video, in which Gypsy is using one of her multiple personas, she says the following about the children they may have together: “The plan for if we have a boy first, we’re going to protect him and our children from the outside world, because they can’t know about you being a vampire,” “If we have a girl, the way it has to be, she has to lose her virginity to you because you are the master of the household." “I will have to explain that to her when she’s of an age where it’s time to explain it, like not when she’s 7, more like around 13.” In 2014, Gypsy—who maintained five Facebook accounts Gypsy admitted she “talked [Godejohn] into it [the murder plot]”. Less than a month before the murder, Gypsy sent Godejohn a video of her walking into her mother’s room, pointing at Dee Dee's pillow and making a stabbing motion. ==Murder==

After receiving money that Gypsy had stolen and mailed to him to purchase a bus ticket, Godejohn returned to Springfield in June 2015, arriving a day after Gypsy and Dee Dee had been at the emergency room to have Gypsy's feeding tube replaced. That same day, after the two returned home from a Dollar General they had an arguement, reconciled, and spent the evening painting each others nails. Gypsy stated that the last words her mother said to her were ""I'm starting to feel more relaxed. Don't hurt me." After Dee Dee went to sleep, Godejohn went to the Blanchard house where Gypsy let him inside and gave him duct tape, gloves, and a knife that she had shoplifted from Walmart on the understanding that he would use it to kill Dee Dee. Godejohn stabbed Dee Dee 17 times in the back while she slept. Gypsy later told authorities she cleaned up some of her mother's blood using baby wipes. The pair took more than $4,400 in cash that Dee Dee kept in the house. They fled to a motel outside Springfield, where they stayed for several days while planning their next steps; during that time, they were recorded on security cameras at multiple stores. In a later interview, Godejohn said, "I felt horrible about it. When me and her were in the hotel room … [Gypsy] kept on telling me, 'Stop crying, stop crying. There's no reason to cry. It was my idea, it wasn't yours.'" "[Gypsy] comforted me about it. I prayed once I got here. I tried to get her mother's soul to forgive me." Gypsy said she believed at that point that they had gotten away with the crime. They mailed the murder weapon to Godejohn's home in Wisconsin to avoid being found with it, then took a bus there. ==Investigation and arrests==

After concerning Facebook posts appeared on Dee Dee's account and phone calls went unanswered, several friends and neighbors went to the Blanchard home. Although the two often left for medical trips without notice, Dee Dee's modified car was still in the driveway, making that explanation unlikely. Protective film on the windows made it difficult to see inside in the low light. When no one answered the door, the group called 9‑1‑1. Police arrived but had to wait for a search warrant before entering; they allowed a neighbor to climb through a window, where he saw that the house was largely undisturbed and that Gypsy's wheelchairs were still present. News that Gypsy was alive was met with relief in Springfield, where she and Godejohn were soon extradited and held on $1 million bond. In announcing the development, Greene County Sheriff Jim Arnott cautioned that "things are not always what they appear." Local media soon reported that Gypsy had never been sick and had always been able to walk, but that her mother had allegedly forced her to pretend otherwise. Arnott urged the public not to donate money to the family until investigators determined the extent of the fraud. ==Trials==

After the disclosure of how Dee Dee allegedly treated Gypsy, public sympathy shifted from Dee Dee as the victim of a violent murder to Gypsy as a long‑term victim of child abuse. Although first-degree murder can carry the death penalty or life without parole under Missouri law, County Prosecutor Dan Patterson announced that he would not seek the death penalty for either Gypsy or Godejohn, calling the case "extraordinary and unusual". He initially waived his right to a jury trial, but reversed that decision in June 2017. In an interview prior to his trial Godejohn stated “All the planning, she did every bit of it,” Godejohn said. “She pretty much willed the knife in my hand to commit the deed herself. She is the mastermind behind the entire thing.” “As far as I'm concerned, she's as guilty as I am.” At trial, Godejohn stated that he asked Gypsy to run away with him instead on the day of the murder and that she refused and said she wanted him to kill her mother. In December 2017, the judge scheduled Godejohn's trial for November 2018. In opening statements, prosecutors alleged that he had deliberated for more than a year before the killing, while his defense argued that Gypsy had formulated the plan and that their client, who was autistic, acted out of infatuation. The next day, prosecutors presented text messages—some sexually explicit—that Gypsy and Godejohn exchanged in the week before the murder, often using alternate personas, along with the knife used in the killing. In several messages, he asked for details about Dee Dee's bedroom and sleeping habits. A video of Gypsy role-playing as 'Demona' sent to Godejohn was played for the court. In this video, Gypsy calls Godejohn her slave and outlines the consequences if he does not obey her, including not having contact with Gypsy. Godejohn’s lawyers claimed that the threats that ‘Demona’ made to Godejohn were dangerous, and that the video of instructions and text messages programmed Godejohn to kill Dee Dee Blanchard or lose Gypsy. Jurors also viewed video of his police interview, in which he admitted to the killing. Gypsy testified on the third day of the trial. She said that although she suggested to Godejohn that he kill Dee Dee to end her mother's abuse, she also considered becoming pregnant by him in the hope that Dee Dee would accept him if she were carrying his child. She said she stole baby clothes from Walmart to prepare for either plan, but that Godejohn never told her what he thought about the pregnancy idea. After four days of testimony, the case went to the jury. Jurors were instructed that they could find Godejohn guilty of involuntary manslaughter, second‑degree murder, first‑degree murder, or not guilty. After approximately two hours of deliberation, they found him guilty of first‑degree murder and armed criminal action. In February 2019, he was sentenced to life in prison for the murder conviction, the only possible sentence since prosecutors had declined to seek the death penalty. He asked Judge David Jones for leniency on the armed criminal action charge, which carries a minimum sentence of three years, saying he had fallen "blindly in love" with Gypsy. He received a concurrent 25‑year sentence. Jones also denied a motion for a new trial filed by Godejohn's attorney, Dewayne Perry. Perry argued that the jury should not have heard that Godejohn had considered raping Dee Dee on the night of the murder, and that the state's psychologist should not have been allowed to testify while the defense psychologist was excluded. Jones acknowledged that an appeals court might view the latter issue as significant and potentially reversible. Mead was also questioned about why he did not ask prospective jurors about exposure to pretrial media, including Gypsy’s Revenge, a documentary about the murder which includes interviews with Gypsy which aired shortly before jury selection; Mead said he did not recall the timing of its premiere. At Godejohn’s appeal hearing, videos were shown that depicted Gypsy emotionally manipulating him and an instructional video demonstrating how to stab Dee Dee; questions were raised about why these had not been used at trial. In late 2023, public defender Tyler Coyle filed an appeal seeking a new trial for Godejohn. No timeline has been set for when the courts will review the request. ==Aftermath and reactions==

Community response Neighbors were shocked to learn that Gypsy's illnesses had been fabricated. Woodmansee—whose information about Gypsy's relationship with Godejohn helped police locate the pair the day after Dee Dee's body was discovered—said she cried in disbelief upon hearing that Gypsy had never been sick or disabled. Her mother recalled how readily everyone accepted Dee Dee's claims without asking for proof, and wondered whether Dee Dee and Gypsy had secretly laughed at their neighbors' naïveté. Kim Blanchard (no relation), who had called sheriff's deputies to the house the previous night, said, "What have I been believing? How could I have been so stupid?" Rod Blanchard, Gypsy's father, was more forgiving. "I think Dee Dee's problem was she started a web of lies, and there was no escaping after," he told BuzzFeed. "[I]t was like a tornado got started." He said he was happy the first time he saw video of Gypsy walking on her own. in accordance with state law. On June 27, 2022, she married Ryan Scott Anderson, though the couple separated three months after her release from prison in March 2024. Blanchard and Ken Urker had originally met in 2017, when he began corresponding with her while she was incarcerated; they became engaged during a 2018 prison visit but ended the relationship the following year. In April 2024, Blanchard resumed a relationship with Urker, and in 2025 the couple welcomed their first child. In March 2026, Blanchard sparked outrage when she created a Tik Tok video showing her making a joke about her involvement in the murder of her mother. Medical community Flasterstein, the pediatric neurologist who had concluded that Gypsy could walk independently and noted in her chart that he suspected Munchausen by proxy, later said it was only the second such potential case he had encountered. He learned of Dee Dee's murder in 2015, when a former nurse emailed him a news report about it. "Poor Gypsy," he said. "She suffered all those years, and for no reason." He told Dean that he wished he could have done more. Although a formal diagnosis of FDIA for Dee Dee is impossible, Feldman told the Springfield News‑Leader after Gypsy's guilty plea that, based on publicly reported information, he believed Dee Dee Blanchard likely met criteria for the disorder. "Gypsy was infantilized and kept away from her peers," he said. "She was little more than a tool for Dee Dee to navigate through the world the way she wanted to." He described the case as "unprecedented" in his 24 years of researching FDIA, noting that he had never before encountered an instance in which an abused child killed the abusive parent. Feldman also stated that Godejohn may have been strongly influenced by Gypsy in ways that have not yet been made public. Speaking hypothetically, Feldman asked, "What person who is told to kill another person would do it, with no experience of that victim — or very limited experience of that victim?" The idea that Gypsy allegedly handed Godejohn a knife, said, "kill my mother," and he did it, seems overly simplistic to Feldman. "There's obviously a lot more complexity to it," he said, referring to Godejohn's state of mind. ==In popular culture==

Films HBO released the documentary Mommy Dead and Dearest (2017), directed by Erin Lee Carr, which examines the murder and includes interrogation footage as well as exclusive interviews with Godejohn and Gypsy. Television On August 13, 2017, the Sony Entertainment Television series CID aired an episode titled "Death on Social Media", based on the case and relocated to India. According to Sony, the characters Aria and Aanchal were based on Gypsy and her mother, Dee Dee Blanchard, respectively. On November 21, 2017, the CBS talk show Dr. Phil, aired the episode "Mother Knows Best: A Story of Munchausen by Proxy and Murder", featuring interviews with Gypsy, her father Rod Blanchard, and her stepmother. On January 5, 2018, The American Broadcasting Company (ABC) news and information series Good Morning America aired an exclusive in-prison interview with Gypsy, in a segment entitled "Mother of All Murders". That same day; the ABC network news magazine series 20/20 episode "The Story of Gypsy Blanchard". It consisted of Gypsy's first network interview from prison as well as an interview with Godejohn. On January 29, 2018, the Investigation Discovery channel series ''James Patterson's Murder is Forever'' episode "Mother of All Murders" aired. On November 6, 2018, Investigation Discovery aired a two-hour documentary titled ''Gypsy's Revenge''. Gypsy was interviewed while incarcerated. During the interview, she describes her relationship with Dee Dee. Rod, various relatives, friends, public officials and Godejohn are all interviewed. On January 26, 2019, Love You to Death aired on Lifetime, dramatizing the case as "inspired by true events". Marcia Gay Harden starred as Dee Dee, Emily Skeggs as Gypsy, Brennan Keel Cook starred as Nick, and Tate Donovan starred as Rod. Skeggs had to wear a bald cap for most of the scenes where her character was hairless. "[W]hen I think about it, every teenager wants to murder their parents at some point," Harden told TV Insider. On March 20, 2019, the streaming service Hulu announced the true crime series The Act. The eight-episode miniseries is based on Michelle Dean's 2016 BuzzFeed article. Dean was an executive producer and writer for the first season. Joey King played Gypsy and received an Emmy nomination for her performance; she shaved her head for the role. Patricia Arquette played Dee Dee and won an Emmy for her performance. Kristy Blanchard, Gypsy's stepmother, claims that Michelle Dean told her telephonically that Blanchard would get 50% of the money made from the show. Despite this, Gypsy, appearing upset about the show, threatened to sue over not giving consent to use her name and life story, but took no legal action, and it is reported that Gypsy said that out of anger. In the Netflix web television series The Politician, the characters Infinity Jackson, Ricardo, and Dusty Jackson are respectively based on Gypsy Blanchard, Nicholas Godejohn and Dee Dee Blanchard. On January 5, 2024, about a week after Blanchard’s prison release, Lifetime released a six-part docu-series titled The Prison Confessions of Gypsy Rose Blanchard. ==See also==