Early life Butler was born Brett Anderson in
Montgomery, Alabama, the eldest of five sisters. She was four years old when her father, Roland Decatur Anderson Jr., an oil company executive, moved the family to
Houston, Texas. Her mother Carol left Roland, an abusive alcoholic, and moved with their children to
Miami, Florida. Her mother battled
depression, and the family was sometimes so poor that they ate
Tootsie Rolls for dinner. In 1978, at the age of 20, Butler married her first husband, Charles Michael Wilson, three months after their meeting. Wilson was abusive and in 1981 she left him. Since then, he has both admitted and adamantly denied battering Butler, while claiming that she too was violent. In New York, she met her second husband, Ken Zieger, and they were married in 1987.
Grace Under Fire and beyond In 1993, Butler starred in the
ABC comedy series
Grace Under Fire, created by
Chuck Lorre. Butler starred as Grace Kelly, a divorced single mother and recovering alcoholic. The show begins after the main character divorces her abusive alcoholic husband of eight years in an attempt to start life anew and prevent her children from making the same mistakes she did. For her performance, Butler received two
Golden Globe nominations for
Best Actress – Television Series Musical or Comedy in 1995 and 1997, and won a
People's Choice Award for Favorite Female Performer in 1994. She reprised her role of Grace Kelly in
The Drew Carey Show and
Ellen in 1997. Butler published her memoir,
Knee Deep in Paradise, in 1996. The book was started before attaining her celebrity status, and candidly addresses much of this time, ending the autobiography before
Grace Under Fires debut. Behind the scenes, Butler battled a recurring drug addiction and spent time in rehab. In February 1998, due to her erratic behavior stemming from substance abuse, she was dismissed from the show and ABC cancelled the series. After
Grace was cancelled in 1998, Butler moved from Los Angeles to a farm in Rome, Georgia. In the following years she made selected screen appearances in the films
Bruno (2000) and
Mrs. Harris (2005), and guest-starred on an episode of the NBC sitcom
My Name Is Earl in 2005. In 2008, Butler headlined at an arts fundraiser and spoke freely with a reporter about her depression, past drug addiction, television work, and current life on the farm. She also expressed interest in writing another book.
Return to acting In October 2011, Butler appeared on
The Rosie Show and reported being sober since 1998. According to an
Entertainment Tonight interview at around the same time, Butler, unable to maintain the costs of her farm, had lived in a homeless shelter, though in a 2021
Hollywood Reporter profile, Butler denied that she was ever homeless, and said she was paid to fabricate this claim for the show. By this time Butler was attempting to make a career comeback and was working on developing a reality TV show about her self-professed psychic abilities and performing at the Downtown Comedy Club in Los Angeles. In June 2012, Butler appeared in a recurring role on the
CBS daytime soap opera
The Young and the Restless playing ex-psychiatrist
Tim Reid's girlfriend. She returned for two episodes in March 2015. Later in 2012, she began appearing in a recurring role as the bartender at the restaurant that Charlie Goodson (
Charlie Sheen) frequents in the
FX comedy series
Anger Management. Butler appeared in a total of 38 episodes from 2012 to 2014. In 2016, she played herself in the comedy-drama film
The Comedian starring
Robert De Niro. Later, Butler began appearing in dramatic roles. She guest-starred in two episodes of HBO drama series
The Leftovers, and had a recurring role as Michaela's (
Aja Naomi King) adoptive mother Trishelle in the ABC legal thriller
How to Get Away with Murder in 2016. From 2018 to 2019, she played Tammy Rose Sutton in the AMC horror series,
The Walking Dead. Also in 2019, she took a recurring role as Sandy Jackson, the mother of
Reese Witherspoon's character in the
Apple TV+ drama series,
The Morning Show. ==Filmography==