Duberly travelled with her husband to the
Crimea in 1854 and stayed with him throughout his time there, despite the protests of commanders such as
Lord Lucan. As the only officer's wife at the front, she was the centre of attention. Described as "a splendid rider, witty, ambitious, daring, lively, loquacious and gregarious", she seemed to possess the physical requirements and tough attitude required of her surroundings, writing shortly after her arrival at
Varna, in Bulgaria, en route to the Crimea that she "was awoke by the reveillée at half-past two; rose, packed our bedding and tent, got a stale egg and a mouthful of brandy and was in my saddle by half-past five." She was told of planned attacks ahead of time, giving her the opportunity to be in a good position to witness them. Such was the case at the
Battle of Balaclava, where her journey from camp to meet up with Henry and watch the battle took her quite close to the enemy. Though her husband survived the day, many of her friends did not: "Even my closed eyelids were filled with the ruddy glare of blood." Being so close to the
front line in one of the first "modern" wars, Mrs Duberly differed from many of her compatriots back home in comprehending the reality of war. When her husband asked if she wanted to view the aftermath of the
Battle of Inkerman, she told him she could not as "the thought of it made me shudder and turn sick." Duberly’s adventures did not always sit well with society: the presence of a middle-class woman at the scene of savage battles was regarded as unwomanly and ungentle, and her accounts of the rank-and-file soldiery were considered to be superficial and unfeeling. She was pointedly snubbed at the Royal review of her husband’s regiment after the war. The journal she published after the war had originally been intended to have a dedication to
Queen Victoria, but this was refused, much to her dismay. Nonetheless she was popular with the troops (who nicknamed her "Mrs. Jubilee") and many people in England. Her published journal met with some success and prints of a photo of her taken by
Roger Fenton sold quite well. ==India==