Cecilia Gentili

Gentili was born on January 31, 1972, and raised as a boy in the Argentinian city of Gálvez, Santa Fe. Her parents were Italian and Argentinian. She was sexually abused by a neighbor throughout her childhood, beginning when she was six years old. Gentili's grandmother, an Indigenous woman from the countryside, was "the only person who truly was open to a conversation about gender". Gentili attended Baptist services with her grandmother as a child; however, when the pastor admonished Gentili for wearing earrings one week, they both left the church in protest. She was regularly attacked, sometimes by the local police who targeted transgender people whom they considered to be wearing clothes belonging to a different gender. The police justified such attacks because “One of the laws there prohibited misleading or being someone that you’re not". and started to identify as a woman. At age 26 she decided to move to the United States in search of a better life. == Life in the United States ==

After leaving Argentina, Gentili lived in Brazil; she later said that she was banned from Brazil, but never divulged why. When Gentili moved to New York City in 2003, she was both undocumented and a sex worker. In 2009, she was arrested on drug possession charges and imprisoned at Rikers. She was detained by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement but released with an ankle bracelet after being assaulted in both the male and female sections of the detention facility. After her release, she participated in an addiction recovery program for 17 months. A counselor told her she needed to find something she enjoyed as much as heroin; according to Gentili, "that came to be community and working for my community.” In 2011, Gentili was granted asylum in the United States and legally changed her name the following year. Gentili became a U.S. citizen in September 2022. == Activism and community work ==

2010s In 2010, Gentili began an internship at The LGBT Center, where she began working with the NYC Anti-Violence Project. From 2012 until 2016, she was the trans health program coordinator at the Apicha Community Health Center in New York City. From 2016 to 2019, Gentili was the Director of Policy at the GMHC, an AIDS service organization in New York City and the world's first organization dedicated to HIV/AIDS prevention. While part of the GMHC, she advocated for the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA), a proposed piece of state legislation which was eventually signed into law in 2019. In 2019, she also founded Trans Equity Consulting, a development consulting firm that sought to center trans women of color, immigrants, sex workers, and incarcerated people. That year, she also joined the Board of Directors of Stonewall Community Foundation, a New York-based, LGBTQ-focused grantmaking organization, where she served until her death. The services provided by Trans Equity Consulting include workshops and trainings, organizational developments, conference and convening planning, speaking and story telling and conflict medication. Through workshops and trainings, Gentili has trained individuals ranging from government to non-profit and academic settings on subjects such as LGBTQ competency, policy, transgender care, and sex worker issues. In 2019, Callen-Lorde honored Gentili with their yearly Community Health Award for her contributions to the visibility and health of the LGBTQ+ community, recognizing her leadership and also for her partnership with Callen-Lorde. 2020s In 2020, she hosted Fierce Futures, a fundraiser supporting organizations that aid Black trans people. In 2021, Gentili was a co-founder of Callen-Lorde Community Health Center's "Cecilia's Occupational Inclusion Network" (COIN) clinic, the first dedicated healthcare center for sex workers on the East Coast. The COIN Clinic provides their patients with access to various essential services. Some services include primary care, sexual health, behavioral health, dental access, pharmacy and more. They work diligently to provide care not only for those with health insurance but also those who are uninsured. As a result, their mission is to provide those who identify as sex workers free care in a supportive environment. In January 2022, she was one of several community leaders who sent a letter asking Governor Kathy Hochul to create the Lorena Borjas Trans Equity Fund. In 2022, she was a finalist for The David Prize where she was recognized for her effort to make New York a more inclusive city for transgender and sex worker rights. In February 2023, she was one of hundreds of New York Times contributors who signed a letter condemning the newspaper's coverage of transgender people. In October 2023, she was among hundreds arrested at a protest in Grand Central Terminal calling for a ceasefire in Gaza organized by the anti-Zionist organization Jewish Voice for Peace. == Creative pursuits ==

In 2017, Gentili mounted The Knife Cuts Both Ways, a comedic one-woman show based on light-hearted stories from her life.'' Also that year, she modeled for American fashion designer Gogo Graham. Between 2018 and 2021, Gentili appeared as Ms. Orlando in 4 episodes of Pose, a TV drama following people of color amidst the AIDS crisis in 1980's New York City. She had planned to reprise the show in April 2024. In 2023, she created and co-organized "Transmissions Fest", the first all-trans music festival in NYC, with the proceeds going to LGBTQ+ charities. Memoir After several years of live oral storytelling, Gentili started working on compiling some of her stories into a book. Within the memoir Gentili focuses on her experiences of trauma, transphobia, and lack of support in Argentina and the United States. According to Gentili, she wrote the book not as "self-justification", but to explain the experiences of trans youth in the 1970s. The process of writing the memoir also allowed Gentili to stop attending therapy sessions, which she had been for more than ten years. The memoir consists of eight letters to people who impacted Gentili's life: her abuser's daughter, her father's mistress, a foreign girl she met in her village, two friends from her youth, her grandmother, her mother, and lastly, the midwife who assisted her mother when she gave birth to Gentili. == Personal life ==

At the time of her death, Gentili split her time between her residences in Marine Park, Brooklyn, and in upstate New York; she had been in a relationship with Peter Scotto since the mid-2010s. Gentili attended both Baptist and Catholic services during her life but found the experiences traumatic and came to identify as an atheist. In November 2023, she said in an interview that she was exploring her relationship to religion. == Death and legacy ==

Gentili died at her home in Brooklyn on February 6, 2024, at the age of 52. The funeral was attended by prominent members of the LGBTQ community in New York City and was covered in Vogue. She was eulogized as “Saint Cecilia, the mother of all whores"; the Archdiocese of New York later condemned the funeral. After her death The Human Rights Campaign Foundation (HRCF), and the Trans Justice Initiative (TJI) program launched the Cecilia Gentili grant in her honor. The grant is supposed to annually provide support to the Latiné trans communities. Gentili's cause of death was not publicly disclosed until April 1, 2024, when it was announced that she had died from "the combined effects of heroin, xylazine, cocaine and fentanyl". Criminal charges were brought against Antonio Venti, who had allegedly sold Gentili the drugs, as well as a second man, Michael Kuilan, who had allegedly provided Venti with the drugs. == Selected works ==