She was born
Elaine Rita Brimberg in New York City. Her Polish Jewish immigrant father, Samuel Brimberg, was an office furniture manufacturer and a violent bully. Her mother was of Latvian Jewish descent; she was the daughter of a multimillionaire manufacturer and inventor. Dundy was one of three sisters; a sibling was
Shirley Clarke, the independent filmmaker. Dundy grew up in a
Park Avenue home where she was educated by a governess, though she eventually attended high school, where her boyfriend Terry was the son of playwright
Maxwell Anderson. Later, they met again and almost married. An honors graduate from
Sweet Briar College in Sweet Briar, Virginia, she studied acting at the
Jarvis Theatre School in Washington with future star actors
Rod Steiger,
Tony Curtis and others, and in the
Dramatic Workshop was taught by
Erwin Piscator. Dundy's controlling father insisted she live at home while in New York, but she calculated that her monthly allowance would allow her to live in
Paris, France, for a short time. At the end of World War II, she traveled to Europe, first to live in Paris, dubbing French films, then settled in London, where she performed in a BBC radio play. In 1950, she met the theater critic
Kenneth Tynan, and two weeks later, they began living together. They married on January 25, 1951, had a daughter Tracy (born on May 12, 1952, London), and became part of the theatrical and film elite of London and Hollywood. ==Radio and television==