Elinor Gertrude Mead was born on May 1, 1837, in
Chesterfield, New Hampshire, to Mary Jane Noyes and Larkin Goldsmith Mead. Her family was part of the intellectual and social aristocracy of New England. Her brothers were sculptor
Larkin Goldsmith Mead (born 1835) and architect
William Rutherford Mead (born 1846). Future President
Rutherford B. Hayes was her cousin and
Oneida Community founder
John Humphrey Noyes was her uncle. She graduated from Brattleboro High School in
Brattleboro, Vermont. During the winter of 1860, Mead travelled to Columbus to stay with Laura Platt, a niece of Hayes'. She met author
William Dean Howells there. She went to London with her brother with the intent of marrying William. After learning that a week's residence would be required, the pair traveled to Paris where they married on December 24, 1862. Their children were Winifred (b. 1863), architect
John Mead Howells (b. 1868), and Mildred (b. 1872). William Howells held a consulship in Venice from 1861 to 1865 and the couple lived there. The Howells moved to
Cambridge, Massachusetts, in 1866 and lived in a house a few blocks north of
Harvard University. ==William Dean Howells House and travels==