In 1238, Khan
Köten, her father according to historians, led the Cumans and a number of other clans in invading the
Kingdom of Hungary while fleeing from the advancing hordes of the
Mongol Empire. In time,
Béla IV of Hungary negotiated an alliance with Köten and his people, granting them asylum in exchange for their conversion to
Roman Catholicism and loyalty to the King. The agreement was sealed with the betrothal of Elizabeth to
Stephen, eldest son of Béla IV. The agreement seems to have occurred while Stephen was an infant. Elizabeth was unlikely to have been older than her future husband. In 1241, the
Mongol invasion of Europe under the leadership of
Batu Khan and
Subutai began, with Hungary among its primary targets. Köten was assassinated by Hungarian nobles fearing he would lead a defection to the other side. Other historians point out that a charter of her father-in-law, Béla IV, refers to a
Cuman chieftain Seyhan as his "kinsman," which can be interpreted to mean that Seyhan was in fact Elizabeth's father. It is unclear whether Seyhan refers to Köten or another chief, as it can be interpreted as a name or a title; Say-χan translates to "good khan". She also had an unidentified sister, who married Hungarian noble
Gregory Monoszló. ==Queen==