First marriage On 19 April 1894, at
Schloss Ehrenburg, Ernest Louis married his maternal
first cousin,
Princess Victoria Melita of Edinburgh nicknamed "Ducky", the daughter of his mother's brother,
Prince Alfred. The match was actively encouraged by their mutual grandmother, Queen Victoria, who attended the wedding. At the wedding, Ernest's youngest surviving sister,
Alix, became engaged to marry
Tsarevich Nicholas of Russia, and the excitement of that imminent match overshadowed the wedding celebrations. Ernest and Victoria Melita had two children: • a daughter,
Elisabeth (11 March 1895 – 16 November 1903). Her early death at age 8 of
typhoid fever greatly devastated her father who wrote "My little Elisabeth" in his memoirs "was the sunshine of my life" 30 years after her death. These revelries were more in keeping with Victoria's inclinations than Ernest's. Their marriage was unhappy due to differences in temperament and attitude. Fond as she was of revelry, Victoria was less enthusiastic about fulfilling her public role. She avoided answering letters, put off visits to elderly relations whose company she did not enjoy, and talked to people who amused her at official functions while ignoring people of higher social or official standing whom she found boring. Victoria's inattention to her duties provoked quarrels with Ernest. The young couple had loud arguments which sometimes turned physical. The volatile Victoria shouted, threw tea trays, smashed china against the wall, and tossed anything that was handy at Ernest during their arguments. Meanwhile, all efforts to rekindle the marriage failed; Victoria took to spending most of the year in the south of France, spending vast sums of money. When Queen Victoria died in January 1901, significant opposition to the end of the marriage was removed. The couple were divorced 21 December 1901 on grounds of "invincible mutual antipathy" by a special verdict of the Supreme Court of Hesse. After the divorce had come through, Victoria told some close relatives that Ernest was a homosexual. Allegedly, she had caught her husband in bed with a male servant when, in 1897, she returned home from a visit to her sister Queen Marie of Romania. She did not make her accusation public, but told her sister that "no boy was safe, from the stable hands to the kitchen help. He slept quite openly with them all." Victoria later married another first cousin, this time on her mother's side, while Ernest married his distant cousin,
Eleonore of Solms-Hohensolms-Lich.
Second marriage Ernest Louis remarried in
Darmstadt, on 2 February 1905, to
Princess Eleonore of Solms-Hohensolms-Lich (17 September 1871 – 16 November 1937). This marriage proved harmonious and happy. The couple had two sons: •
Georg Donatus, Hereditary Grand Duke of Hesse (1906–1937). He married Ernest's grand-niece,
Princess Cecilie of Greece and Denmark, a sister of
Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, and had issue. The couple and two of their young sons were killed in a plane crash in 1937, leaving behind a daughter who also died two years later, while yet a child. •
Louis, Prince of Hesse and by Rhine (1908–1968), who married
Margaret Campbell Geddes, daughter of
Auckland Geddes, 1st Baron Geddes; no issue. Louis adopted
Moritz, Landgrave of Hesse, as his heir, thereby uniting the two lines of the Hesse family. In addition to his marriage, Ernest Louis maintained a close friendship with the bisexual Karl August Lingner, the inventor of Odol, one of the first liquid mouthwashes. When Lingner died of tongue cancer, he bequeathed
Tarasp Castle in Switzerland to Ernest Louis. However, the Hesse family never lived in it, and it was sold in 2016. ==Grand Duke of Hesse==