She met
Harry Snyder in 1947, while working at a restaurant in Seattle; the two were married the following year and moved to
Baldwin Park, California. By the late 1950s, the couple had moved to a larger house in the nearby city of
San Dimas, California. Esther and Harry Snyder had three children: biological sons
Guy (1951-1999) and
Rich Snyder (1952-1993), and an adopted son named Wilbur Stites (1951-1979), a local orphan whom the Snyders began fostering in the early 1960s. Esther outlived her husband, who died in 1976 from
lung cancer and all three of their sons: Guy succumbed to a
drug overdose, Rich died in a
plane crash and Wilbur was killed in an
automobile crash. Following her husband's death, Snyder spent the last two decades of her life living in
Glendora, California, where she owned a home that author Stacy Perman described as "a ranch house shaded by oak trees and fronted by a white fence." ==Death==