"Family Affair" received critical acclaim.
Alexis Petridis from
The Guardian declared the song one "of the all-time great
pop-
R&B party bangers. Everything about "Family Affair" is perfection: Dr Dre’s simple but devastatingly effective production; Blige’s economical, understated vocal; the fact that every melody line sounds like a hook."
Billboard critic
Chuck Taylor called "Family Affair" a "finger-poppin' jam" as well as a "smash waiting to happen." He found that "[Blige] sashays over Dr. Dre's muscular
funk groove with notable confident ease. She's not even breaking a sweat by screaming big, overblown notes; rather she opts for an authoritative, guttural growl that is countered by layers of sleek, deep-voiced harmonies." Sal Cinquemani, writing for
Slant Magazine, remarked that "the song is the latest in a recent slew of club-ready superstar anthems, celebrating the joy and unity of dance. "Let’s get crunk ‘cause Mary’s back," she sings. Mary’s back, indeed, in full form for the first time since 1997’s
Share My World." Da'Shan Smith from
uDiscoverMusic found that "Family Affair "was a "reminder that [Blige] could still get down" and that "she started a new era that summer by inviting fans to her dancerie and reminding them they "don’t need no hateration, holleration," over Dr. Dre’s
G-Funk production."
Stereogum editor Tom Breihan noted that Dr. Dre's "beat is an absolute product of its time, and it also sounds like it’s always existed. The track hits hard, all churning strings and booming drum-sounds and the staccato pianos that Dre loved at the time. It sounds expensive and somehow warlike — the type of thing that should soundtrack a movie scene of military forces mobilizing. In its majestic stomp, "Family Affair" sounds vaguely stressful."
BET.com wrote of the song: "This momentous Dr. Dre-produced banger may have been the first time that Mary really let her hair down and just had fun (you'd have to be having fun to come up with words like "dancery" and "hateration")."
Vibe found that "Family Affair" combines a "funky mix of R&B and
hip-hop as well as some interesting vocabulary with listeners being told about a "dancery" where "holleration" and "hateration" would not be tolerated." ==Music video==