Virginity Oral sex is commonly used as a means of preserving
virginity, especially among heterosexual pairings; this is sometimes termed
technical virginity (which additionally includes anal sex,
manual sex and other
non-penetrative sex acts, but excludes penile-vaginal sex). The concept of "technical virginity" or
sexual abstinence through oral sex is particularly popular among teenagers in the United States, including with regard to teenage girls who not only fellate their boyfriends to preserve their virginities, but also to create and maintain intimacy or to avoid pregnancy. However, the exact attitude towards oral sex is a subject of disagreements between modern scholars of Islam. Authorities considering it "objectionable" do so because of the penis' supposedly impure fluids coming in contact with the mouth. Others emphasize that there is no decisive evidence to forbid oral sex. In
Malaysia, fellatio is illegal, but the law is seldom enforced. Under Malaysia's Section 377A of the Penal Code, the introduction of the penis into the anus or mouth of another person is considered a "carnal intercourse against the order of nature" and is punishable with imprisonment of 20 years maximum and whipping.
Tradition Galienus called fellatio
lesbiari since women of the island of
Lesbos were supposed to have introduced the practice of using one's lips to give sexual pleasure. '' The
Ancient Indian Kama Sutra, dating from the first century AD, describes oral sex, discussing fellatio in great detail (the
Kama Sutra has a chapter on (or ), "mouth congress") and only briefly mentioning
cunnilingus. However, according to the
Kama Sutra, fellatio is above all a characteristic of
eunuchs (or, according to other translations, of
effeminate homosexuals or
trans women similar to the modern
Hijra of India), who use their mouths as a substitute for female
genitalia.
Vātsyāyana, the author of the
Kama Sutra, states that it is also practiced by "unchaste women", but mentions that there are widespread traditional concerns about this being a degrading or unclean practice, with known practitioners being evaded as love partners in large parts of the country. The author appears to somewhat agree with these attitudes, claiming that "a wise man" should not engage in that form of intercourse while acknowledging that it can be appropriate in some unspecified cases. The
Moche culture of ancient
Peru depicted fellatio in their ceramics. In some cultures, such as
Cambodia,
Chinese in
Southeast Asia, northern
Manchu tribes along
Amur River,
Sambians in
Papua New Guinea,
Thailand,
Telugus of
India,
Native Hawaiians and other
Pacific Islanders, briefly taking the penis of a male infant or toddler into one's mouth was considered a nonsexual form of affection or even a form of
ritual,
greeting,
respect, parenting love, or
lifesaving. According to some sources, it was an ancient
Chinese custom for grandmothers, mothers, and elder sisters to calm their baby boys with fellatio. It has also been reported that some modern Chinese mothers have performed fellatio to their moribund sons as affection and means for lifesaving, because they culturally believe that when the penis is completely retracted into the abdomen, the boy or man will die. ==Other animals==